Yesterday my husband of 14 years told me he wants a divorce. Totally blindsided me. I'm a mess. Doesn't even want to try counseling. I am so scared for difficult child and easy child. difficult child has been doing a little better, but this will devistate him. How do you tell kids? Especially a difficult child? Any words of wisdom? husband seems to think the kids will be just fine. difficult child sees a psychiatrist every 6 weeks for medications but no other therapist at this time because if financial reasons.