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<blockquote data-quote="Sooz" data-source="post: 678419" data-attributes="member: 20015"><p>As I lay here at 3 am reading all the advice and support I want to say thank you.</p><p>We told are son his consequences are whatever we say goes period. If rules aren't followed we will have to press charges. To think that we will have to do that sickens me to the core. I don't think if it comes to that I will be able to do it.</p><p>Anyway, I have been working on myself...I am not very strong right now and I'm trying to be. </p><p>Thank god I have my husbands and both our families support. I just hate to tell them again how he's stolen from us...it's a broken record. </p><p>Thank you again...I have a lot to think about and talk to my husband. I want to create solid rules and consequences. Maybe if they were written down and we all sign it like a contract it will help me to follow through better.</p><p>My husband keeps telling me he's not mad at me and he will take care of it this time. I love him son much for that. The crazy thing is I keep thinking how I did tell on him and why can't I protect my son and get him to just stop so no one else needs to know. Why can't I just f*ckin fix it! I have realized I can't and it is very hard for me to accept. I usually can figure things out and fix them. That's what I do. I'm a wife and a mother of two children. Right now I feel like I'm not such a great mother. Right now I wish I never was one. The work to raise a child then get kicked in the face is disheartening it hurts to the core. I'm going to try to put on my big girl pants and handle it all as usual but it honestly is breaking me down.</p><p>Thank you for letting me vent. Maybe I will just use this forumn as a journal....lol</p><p>Night all.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Sooz, post: 678419, member: 20015"] As I lay here at 3 am reading all the advice and support I want to say thank you. We told are son his consequences are whatever we say goes period. If rules aren't followed we will have to press charges. To think that we will have to do that sickens me to the core. I don't think if it comes to that I will be able to do it. Anyway, I have been working on myself...I am not very strong right now and I'm trying to be. Thank god I have my husbands and both our families support. I just hate to tell them again how he's stolen from us...it's a broken record. Thank you again...I have a lot to think about and talk to my husband. I want to create solid rules and consequences. Maybe if they were written down and we all sign it like a contract it will help me to follow through better. My husband keeps telling me he's not mad at me and he will take care of it this time. I love him son much for that. The crazy thing is I keep thinking how I did tell on him and why can't I protect my son and get him to just stop so no one else needs to know. Why can't I just f*ckin fix it! I have realized I can't and it is very hard for me to accept. I usually can figure things out and fix them. That's what I do. I'm a wife and a mother of two children. Right now I feel like I'm not such a great mother. Right now I wish I never was one. The work to raise a child then get kicked in the face is disheartening it hurts to the core. I'm going to try to put on my big girl pants and handle it all as usual but it honestly is breaking me down. Thank you for letting me vent. Maybe I will just use this forumn as a journal....lol Night all. [/QUOTE]
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