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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 336056" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Shari, while he is sleeping take the truck keys. Take any spares laying around. keep the truck locked. he takes it whenever, regardless of your plans/work. YOU maintain it and pay for it and need it. The kids need you to have it. His car is unreliable because he does not maintain it.</p><p></p><p>There is no need for him to have access to your truck. don't bother talking to him about it. Just lock it and keep the keys on your person or destroy them. Don't leave them out for him to find them while you are asleep.</p><p></p><p>It is NOT selfish. It is making sure you and the kids have what you NEED. Leaving you at the shooting thing because he didn't want to drive his car is selfish. It is time to protect yourself and your kids in this way.</p><p></p><p>Has his testosterone level ever been checked? My husband got like this when his was very low. The replacement comes in a gel and is amazing.</p><p></p><p>Otherwise, if you don't want to live with this you can make an ultimatum about the doctor because he IS depressed. his behavior is clear, in my opinion. </p><p></p><p>Also, do you pay for cable or satellite? Stop paying for it. Call them and cancel it and send the equipment back. If husband wants it he will have to use his money and his credit to get it. Make sure he cannot use your name/credit/money. Just stop the insanity of the tv. </p><p></p><p>Otherwise you have to decide if you want to live this way. Cause with-o medication and no tv, he is going to be this way. If you don't want this to be your life, then you will have to take steps to change it. If you cannot take those steps, think of him as a toddler and try to go on.</p><p></p><p>I am sorry.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 336056, member: 1233"] Shari, while he is sleeping take the truck keys. Take any spares laying around. keep the truck locked. he takes it whenever, regardless of your plans/work. YOU maintain it and pay for it and need it. The kids need you to have it. His car is unreliable because he does not maintain it. There is no need for him to have access to your truck. don't bother talking to him about it. Just lock it and keep the keys on your person or destroy them. Don't leave them out for him to find them while you are asleep. It is NOT selfish. It is making sure you and the kids have what you NEED. Leaving you at the shooting thing because he didn't want to drive his car is selfish. It is time to protect yourself and your kids in this way. Has his testosterone level ever been checked? My husband got like this when his was very low. The replacement comes in a gel and is amazing. Otherwise, if you don't want to live with this you can make an ultimatum about the doctor because he IS depressed. his behavior is clear, in my opinion. Also, do you pay for cable or satellite? Stop paying for it. Call them and cancel it and send the equipment back. If husband wants it he will have to use his money and his credit to get it. Make sure he cannot use your name/credit/money. Just stop the insanity of the tv. Otherwise you have to decide if you want to live this way. Cause with-o medication and no tv, he is going to be this way. If you don't want this to be your life, then you will have to take steps to change it. If you cannot take those steps, think of him as a toddler and try to go on. I am sorry. [/QUOTE]
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