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<blockquote data-quote="Fran" data-source="post: 131569" data-attributes="member: 3"><p>Sharon, I don't see the dad as alarmist at all. I see a parent who has a child who has received some physical assault from your difficult child twice. He is well within his rights to complain and ask the school what will be done. he is entitled to a safe environment for his child just as all of us are. </p><p>I do think that when the time will come for you to ask the SD to help with Residential Treatment Center (RTC) or some sort of more intense schooling environment, that the letter will help your position.</p><p>I have long thought that you and husband have an incredible level of tolerance for difficult child's violence. It is unreasonable to expect everyone else to have that same tolerance. He is a child but he is pretty consistently violent and threatening at certain times with both you and those in his world. </p><p></p><p>The school also has a responsibility to educate your child in the least restrictive environment. Let the school handle this but know that if difficult child continues with physical assault on anyone including teaching staff that there will be changes regardless of how tolerant and accepting you and husband are. </p><p>This isn't your fault but it is a wake up call that the older difficult child is the more the expectation of self control will be in play. Our difficult child's don't have it at this age. </p><p>I'm hoping your difficult child will gain some control soon and this physically eruptions will be a thing of the past. Hugs.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Fran, post: 131569, member: 3"] Sharon, I don't see the dad as alarmist at all. I see a parent who has a child who has received some physical assault from your difficult child twice. He is well within his rights to complain and ask the school what will be done. he is entitled to a safe environment for his child just as all of us are. I do think that when the time will come for you to ask the SD to help with Residential Treatment Center (RTC) or some sort of more intense schooling environment, that the letter will help your position. I have long thought that you and husband have an incredible level of tolerance for difficult child's violence. It is unreasonable to expect everyone else to have that same tolerance. He is a child but he is pretty consistently violent and threatening at certain times with both you and those in his world. The school also has a responsibility to educate your child in the least restrictive environment. Let the school handle this but know that if difficult child continues with physical assault on anyone including teaching staff that there will be changes regardless of how tolerant and accepting you and husband are. This isn't your fault but it is a wake up call that the older difficult child is the more the expectation of self control will be in play. Our difficult child's don't have it at this age. I'm hoping your difficult child will gain some control soon and this physically eruptions will be a thing of the past. Hugs. [/QUOTE]
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