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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 116543" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>Thank you, ladies (and gents, if reading). Sorry to put you through this, but am feeling the need to vent just a tad bit more.</p><p></p><p>1) These collaborative teachers are completing a chart each day, each class fo difficult child where they check off whether or not he brought supplies to class, sat and listened, otherwise disrupted class, paid attention to teacher. These teachers are changing his grades from F's to D's so he won't have to take the year over. He used to have a B average and got NO education the last quarter of last year. They acknowledge he has no behavior problems this year and I have told them difficult child has expressed several times that he can't take being under this microscope. But, they can't take the time to help make sure homework assignments are documented as listed in IEP. I know you've offered suggestions, which I will follow through on- I just needed to complain some more about it!</p><p></p><p>2) I have to go to a hearing next week because the judge can't just sign off on removing an order for MST services, which only addresses conduct disorder (behavior contract) but has to be involved in sd, home, any other therapy/psychiatrist, everything in difficult child's life. The judge had ordered this, but I have two letters from 2 different psychiatrists saying difficult child needs cognitive behavioral therapy instead of this. Finally, GAL backed me up on this, but judge just won't sign off without a hearing. Fine. So, I just got the return call from an attorney I'm hiring to be there with us. Why won't judge just sign off? Well, several people have told me she has a "particular" interest in difficult child. Why? Because my brother who had tried to get custody had made so many calls to convince people it was my parenting that I will be scrutinized for everything throughout this process, even though he didn't get custody and half the county has checked me out and decided I am doing everything possible. Well, my *^#$@%^&( brother who says he loves difficult child so much (although if you don't have more feeling than this for your sibling, how can you love their child so much)- anyway, he has never had/raised a child, much less a difficult child, and if he wanted what is best for difficult child would someone not stop to think how many thousands of dollars I'm having to spend, not to mention the emotional turmoil for difficult child and myself, to live like this? </p><p></p><p>Bro knows this means I won't be able to afford braces for difficult child now among other things. Really, I think he wants to make sure that our lives are miserable if he can't have custody of difficult child or take over this household. Have I mentioned how I feel about him??</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 116543, member: 3699"] Thank you, ladies (and gents, if reading). Sorry to put you through this, but am feeling the need to vent just a tad bit more. 1) These collaborative teachers are completing a chart each day, each class fo difficult child where they check off whether or not he brought supplies to class, sat and listened, otherwise disrupted class, paid attention to teacher. These teachers are changing his grades from F's to D's so he won't have to take the year over. He used to have a B average and got NO education the last quarter of last year. They acknowledge he has no behavior problems this year and I have told them difficult child has expressed several times that he can't take being under this microscope. But, they can't take the time to help make sure homework assignments are documented as listed in IEP. I know you've offered suggestions, which I will follow through on- I just needed to complain some more about it! 2) I have to go to a hearing next week because the judge can't just sign off on removing an order for MST services, which only addresses conduct disorder (behavior contract) but has to be involved in sd, home, any other therapy/psychiatrist, everything in difficult child's life. The judge had ordered this, but I have two letters from 2 different psychiatrists saying difficult child needs cognitive behavioral therapy instead of this. Finally, GAL backed me up on this, but judge just won't sign off without a hearing. Fine. So, I just got the return call from an attorney I'm hiring to be there with us. Why won't judge just sign off? Well, several people have told me she has a "particular" interest in difficult child. Why? Because my brother who had tried to get custody had made so many calls to convince people it was my parenting that I will be scrutinized for everything throughout this process, even though he didn't get custody and half the county has checked me out and decided I am doing everything possible. Well, my *^#$@%^&( brother who says he loves difficult child so much (although if you don't have more feeling than this for your sibling, how can you love their child so much)- anyway, he has never had/raised a child, much less a difficult child, and if he wanted what is best for difficult child would someone not stop to think how many thousands of dollars I'm having to spend, not to mention the emotional turmoil for difficult child and myself, to live like this? Bro knows this means I won't be able to afford braces for difficult child now among other things. Really, I think he wants to make sure that our lives are miserable if he can't have custody of difficult child or take over this household. Have I mentioned how I feel about him?? [/QUOTE]
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