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<blockquote data-quote="TerryJ2" data-source="post: 509456" data-attributes="member: 3419"><p>Well, it sounds like you've made some progress.</p><p>Sorry you came to tears, but as you said, those things happen and sometimes it can clear the air. The more you talk, the less emotional it will become. I would tell him that, too. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p><p>Also, when he says you're intruding, tell him that it it your house and your rules, and the more he can prove how well he is doing, the less you will intrude and the more privileges he will earn.</p><p>I am so glad you two are going to the dr. I hope that your difficult child can make some progress. I also hope that the dr asks questions like, "Does the fast pace of the instructor cause you to shut down and not listen? Do you think the buzzing of the flourescent lights might be bugging you? Is the room too cold or too hot? Does test taking make you overly anxious?" Because your difficult child could have sensory issues, anxiety issues, all sorts of things.</p><p>Put in the context of a dr's ofc, it would be viewed as more of a medical situation than a personal flaw, Know what I mean??</p><p>Because that's really what it is. I mean, if he needed glasses, it wouldn't be that big of a deal, so this is just one way to get these pesky irritations out of the way to make learning easier.</p><p>At least, let's hope so. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite2" alt=";)" title="Wink ;)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=";)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="TerryJ2, post: 509456, member: 3419"] Well, it sounds like you've made some progress. Sorry you came to tears, but as you said, those things happen and sometimes it can clear the air. The more you talk, the less emotional it will become. I would tell him that, too. :) Also, when he says you're intruding, tell him that it it your house and your rules, and the more he can prove how well he is doing, the less you will intrude and the more privileges he will earn. I am so glad you two are going to the dr. I hope that your difficult child can make some progress. I also hope that the dr asks questions like, "Does the fast pace of the instructor cause you to shut down and not listen? Do you think the buzzing of the flourescent lights might be bugging you? Is the room too cold or too hot? Does test taking make you overly anxious?" Because your difficult child could have sensory issues, anxiety issues, all sorts of things. Put in the context of a dr's ofc, it would be viewed as more of a medical situation than a personal flaw, Know what I mean?? Because that's really what it is. I mean, if he needed glasses, it wouldn't be that big of a deal, so this is just one way to get these pesky irritations out of the way to make learning easier. At least, let's hope so. ;) [/QUOTE]
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