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<blockquote data-quote="JayPee" data-source="post: 760166" data-attributes="member: 23405"><p>Just updating...</p><p></p><p>I'm not sure I'm making any progress. So my oldest son (32) who has a place to live until the end of the month but won't go back to live with roommates (because of I feel his own paranoia won't allow it) is living in his car. </p><p></p><p>As I mentioned previously about 3 weeks ago I feel like he had a psychotic episode which caused him to have a spiritual awakening but also a bit of crazy has come with it. First my younger son told me that older son told him he was on adderral but then found out that he was buying "expensive" pot. Well, he used that last of his income tax return money to live in his car, buy cigarettes, food and smoke pot or whatever it is he was taking.</p><p></p><p>He honestly, as some of you may recall from my previous posts was always aggressive, angry, verbally abuse and blamed me and my ex -husband for all his problems. He now is the total opposite and is constantly (and sincerely) thanking me for being the best mother in the world, he knows now the wrong he's done etc. This is all good but I confronted him about the adderral and pot and he did say he smoke pot but nothing else.</p><p></p><p>Where I'm at is feeling the pinch again financially, even though I'm so angry that he blew all his IRS return and now has no gas, no food, no job and psychologically won't go back to his apartment and is freezing in his car at night, I'm feeling compelled to help him.</p><p></p><p>You all know and I know I shouldn't help him to continue in his car but he isn't psychologically well to some degree and he won't seek help.</p><p></p><p>I think before when he was nasty and horrible towards me that it was easier to detach but I'm having difficulties figuring out how to deal with this.</p><p></p><p>Just putting this out there because I'm feeling torn inside.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="JayPee, post: 760166, member: 23405"] Just updating... I'm not sure I'm making any progress. So my oldest son (32) who has a place to live until the end of the month but won't go back to live with roommates (because of I feel his own paranoia won't allow it) is living in his car. As I mentioned previously about 3 weeks ago I feel like he had a psychotic episode which caused him to have a spiritual awakening but also a bit of crazy has come with it. First my younger son told me that older son told him he was on adderral but then found out that he was buying "expensive" pot. Well, he used that last of his income tax return money to live in his car, buy cigarettes, food and smoke pot or whatever it is he was taking. He honestly, as some of you may recall from my previous posts was always aggressive, angry, verbally abuse and blamed me and my ex -husband for all his problems. He now is the total opposite and is constantly (and sincerely) thanking me for being the best mother in the world, he knows now the wrong he's done etc. This is all good but I confronted him about the adderral and pot and he did say he smoke pot but nothing else. Where I'm at is feeling the pinch again financially, even though I'm so angry that he blew all his IRS return and now has no gas, no food, no job and psychologically won't go back to his apartment and is freezing in his car at night, I'm feeling compelled to help him. You all know and I know I shouldn't help him to continue in his car but he isn't psychologically well to some degree and he won't seek help. I think before when he was nasty and horrible towards me that it was easier to detach but I'm having difficulties figuring out how to deal with this. Just putting this out there because I'm feeling torn inside. [/QUOTE]
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