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<blockquote data-quote="Kjs" data-source="post: 43314"><p>husband cannot get calls at work. He has a cell phone, but cannot answer it. He can return messages on his break. I left him a message to call, but he only has 10 minutes and if they take to long paging the person, he will have to hang up.</p><p></p><p>School said they will not babysit him. I have paper, pencils, notebooks, folders. He won't take them. I can bring them, but then they just get thrown about in his locker and all crumpled up. He wouldn't take them to class anyway.</p><p></p><p>I have gone to class with him. He treats me like crap in front of everyone and what can I do in front of everyone?</p><p></p><p>I asked husband to take a vacation day and go to school with him.</p><p>He doesn't take vacation days to spend on vacation or with me..so I guess it would be a good thing for him to do. He just blows me off.</p><p></p><p>Yes, it would avoid big conflict if they just gave him the paper and pencils. he may still refuse to do work, but he would have the supplies. But...shouldn't he be a little bit responsible at this age? He KNOWS what to do. He was screaming at me on the phone. i can't sit hear in tears and all messed up feeling like I just want to die. I have soo very much I need to learn yet.</p><p>You ever feel so down in the dumps that you can't get any lower..then it comes, a new lower than low. That's the appreciation we get for giving him money and letting him spend the night somewhere Saturday, and giving him MORE money and letting him go to a carnival that is in town yesterday.</p><p></p><p>Then he will say he is soooo very sorry, he knows he is wrong, and all that BS. husband will buy it. I'll just sit and cry. Then husband will yell at me. It wasn't suppose to be like this. It just wasn't. What is in difficult child's head? Why does he hurt me so much? then he tells counselor that he is afraid I will leave. Dont have any reason to stay. I really don't. Love him so very much, but he hurts me and makes me cry every single day. He would just be better off without me. Then there would be no more arguing.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Kjs, post: 43314"] husband cannot get calls at work. He has a cell phone, but cannot answer it. He can return messages on his break. I left him a message to call, but he only has 10 minutes and if they take to long paging the person, he will have to hang up. School said they will not babysit him. I have paper, pencils, notebooks, folders. He won't take them. I can bring them, but then they just get thrown about in his locker and all crumpled up. He wouldn't take them to class anyway. I have gone to class with him. He treats me like crap in front of everyone and what can I do in front of everyone? I asked husband to take a vacation day and go to school with him. He doesn't take vacation days to spend on vacation or with me..so I guess it would be a good thing for him to do. He just blows me off. Yes, it would avoid big conflict if they just gave him the paper and pencils. he may still refuse to do work, but he would have the supplies. But...shouldn't he be a little bit responsible at this age? He KNOWS what to do. He was screaming at me on the phone. i can't sit hear in tears and all messed up feeling like I just want to die. I have soo very much I need to learn yet. You ever feel so down in the dumps that you can't get any lower..then it comes, a new lower than low. That's the appreciation we get for giving him money and letting him spend the night somewhere Saturday, and giving him MORE money and letting him go to a carnival that is in town yesterday. Then he will say he is soooo very sorry, he knows he is wrong, and all that BS. husband will buy it. I'll just sit and cry. Then husband will yell at me. It wasn't suppose to be like this. It just wasn't. What is in difficult child's head? Why does he hurt me so much? then he tells counselor that he is afraid I will leave. Dont have any reason to stay. I really don't. Love him so very much, but he hurts me and makes me cry every single day. He would just be better off without me. Then there would be no more arguing. [/QUOTE]
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