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<blockquote data-quote="toughlovin" data-source="post: 596758" data-attributes="member: 15801"><p>AG I am glad you are safe and that you are taking care of yourself. I know and understand your feelings of betrayal, but i doubt difficult child sees it that way or is trying to do that. Kids need to separate and differentiate themselves from their mothers and that includes their relationships. So difficult child needs to figure out his own relationship with bio dad and grandmother and him doing that is not a betrayal of you. However it is all the more complicated because he is a difficult child and their are drugs involved.... those things muddy the water and probably makes his decision making poor to say the least. I think it is really important though that you dont take his poor choices personally... they are not really about you. At the same time continue to do what you need to do to take care of yourself and stay safe.</p><p></p><p>Hugs,</p><p></p><p>*TL</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="toughlovin, post: 596758, member: 15801"] AG I am glad you are safe and that you are taking care of yourself. I know and understand your feelings of betrayal, but i doubt difficult child sees it that way or is trying to do that. Kids need to separate and differentiate themselves from their mothers and that includes their relationships. So difficult child needs to figure out his own relationship with bio dad and grandmother and him doing that is not a betrayal of you. However it is all the more complicated because he is a difficult child and their are drugs involved.... those things muddy the water and probably makes his decision making poor to say the least. I think it is really important though that you dont take his poor choices personally... they are not really about you. At the same time continue to do what you need to do to take care of yourself and stay safe. Hugs, *TL [/QUOTE]
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