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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 492944" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>My husband would prefer to never discuss this with the kids. The original deal husband and I made was that he would tell the boys and I woudl tell the girls. Wiz was 6 when he asked wehre babies came from. We were on a 90 min car ride late after dark, just him and I, and every question I answered prompted antoher question more in-depth. It never occurred to me not to answer him. He was already reading on a university level (reading and comprehending well above 12 grade level but did NOT have the EMOTIONAL ability to handle what he could read) and I did NOT want him to search out his own info on this topic. </p><p></p><p>I have always thanked God that no matter how angry he was with me or the world or whatever, he still felt able to come and ask questions on topics liek that. To my knowledge (and both of them say it is true), he has NEVER spoken with his father about sex or wanted to. I don't really know why, but it isn't that big a deal since he could and idd ask me.</p><p></p><p>We did have a few things that happened that he refused to believe us on. He was 3 1/2 when he realized that sometimes his body stood up, shall we say here in polite company? I told him it was normal, natural and had always happened but he hadn't noticed. husband told him the same thing. he REFUSED to believe us and insisted on calling my parents. It took BOTH of my parents to convince him that he did not need to see a doctor and wasn't broken,lol. We adults all kept a veeeeeery straight face until after he had gone off to do something, then we ALL just about fell over laughing!!! He simply could NOT fathom that his body was supposed to do that, lol!!! It is something we will remind him of when HE has a son, lol!</p><p></p><p>This isn't something that you should feel afraid to ask us about here. A LOT of us have had various problems with our kids acting in ways we didn't expect and sexuality is not something that happens when you hit puberty - it is part of life from the day you are born. One little girl in the daycare that my kids were in would hump a blanket in her sleep every single day. No one made a big deal of it because she was sound asleep wehn it happened and she honestly had NO CLUE it was happening. Our kids here just take it to levels/places/times we didn't expect.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 492944, member: 1233"] My husband would prefer to never discuss this with the kids. The original deal husband and I made was that he would tell the boys and I woudl tell the girls. Wiz was 6 when he asked wehre babies came from. We were on a 90 min car ride late after dark, just him and I, and every question I answered prompted antoher question more in-depth. It never occurred to me not to answer him. He was already reading on a university level (reading and comprehending well above 12 grade level but did NOT have the EMOTIONAL ability to handle what he could read) and I did NOT want him to search out his own info on this topic. I have always thanked God that no matter how angry he was with me or the world or whatever, he still felt able to come and ask questions on topics liek that. To my knowledge (and both of them say it is true), he has NEVER spoken with his father about sex or wanted to. I don't really know why, but it isn't that big a deal since he could and idd ask me. We did have a few things that happened that he refused to believe us on. He was 3 1/2 when he realized that sometimes his body stood up, shall we say here in polite company? I told him it was normal, natural and had always happened but he hadn't noticed. husband told him the same thing. he REFUSED to believe us and insisted on calling my parents. It took BOTH of my parents to convince him that he did not need to see a doctor and wasn't broken,lol. We adults all kept a veeeeeery straight face until after he had gone off to do something, then we ALL just about fell over laughing!!! He simply could NOT fathom that his body was supposed to do that, lol!!! It is something we will remind him of when HE has a son, lol! This isn't something that you should feel afraid to ask us about here. A LOT of us have had various problems with our kids acting in ways we didn't expect and sexuality is not something that happens when you hit puberty - it is part of life from the day you are born. One little girl in the daycare that my kids were in would hump a blanket in her sleep every single day. No one made a big deal of it because she was sound asleep wehn it happened and she honestly had NO CLUE it was happening. Our kids here just take it to levels/places/times we didn't expect. [/QUOTE]
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