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CB, next time don't warn just report. For some kids it's the only way to get through to them.
I can't speak for other cultures but I spent the vast majority of my life hanging with males of all ages. I seem to get along better with males. I have had many a long open discussion on this subject because having been a victim (and I was a child, I did NOT dress inappropriately by any means, and rape as an adult dressed conservatively) and knowing that sexual assault is more about power than sex (and sorry it IS about sex too because that is the way that person gets off). I wanted the male perspective.
I can't say I found one that viewed a female who dressed immodestly as being moral. While they didn't agree it made her open season to rape; general consensus was that she was "loose" or "easy" or a "ho" in today's terms. So they felt no barrier to open remarks / gestures to said female since she is openly advertising her "wares". She is also less likely to be believed when she protests.
I was maybe 7 when my gramma first told me, "If you dress like a Ho (not this term but other won't pass censors) and you act like a Ho, a man is gonna treat you like a Ho."
I don't give a crud about political correctness. My gramma's statement was true the day she made it (early 70's) and it's true today. 41 yrs later I've never found anything to contradict her statement in human behavior. Except not only will a man treat you like a "ho" so will every female.
There are many females, teens and grown women alike, who think advertising or flaunting themselves make them popular with males. Well. duh. There is a big difference between being "popular" and being respected.
So while a woman has the right to say no and that should be enough? If you want respected by that male your with you might want to really look at yourself in the mirror. If your skirt is up to your rear and your chest is falling out of your top don't act so darn shocked that his hands are all over you. Because your mouth might be saying no but everything else is a giant welcome sign.
I can't speak for other cultures but I spent the vast majority of my life hanging with males of all ages. I seem to get along better with males. I have had many a long open discussion on this subject because having been a victim (and I was a child, I did NOT dress inappropriately by any means, and rape as an adult dressed conservatively) and knowing that sexual assault is more about power than sex (and sorry it IS about sex too because that is the way that person gets off). I wanted the male perspective.
I can't say I found one that viewed a female who dressed immodestly as being moral. While they didn't agree it made her open season to rape; general consensus was that she was "loose" or "easy" or a "ho" in today's terms. So they felt no barrier to open remarks / gestures to said female since she is openly advertising her "wares". She is also less likely to be believed when she protests.
I was maybe 7 when my gramma first told me, "If you dress like a Ho (not this term but other won't pass censors) and you act like a Ho, a man is gonna treat you like a Ho."
I don't give a crud about political correctness. My gramma's statement was true the day she made it (early 70's) and it's true today. 41 yrs later I've never found anything to contradict her statement in human behavior. Except not only will a man treat you like a "ho" so will every female.
There are many females, teens and grown women alike, who think advertising or flaunting themselves make them popular with males. Well. duh. There is a big difference between being "popular" and being respected.
So while a woman has the right to say no and that should be enough? If you want respected by that male your with you might want to really look at yourself in the mirror. If your skirt is up to your rear and your chest is falling out of your top don't act so darn shocked that his hands are all over you. Because your mouth might be saying no but everything else is a giant welcome sign.
