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Interested discussion with my two adopted daughters about adoption
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<blockquote data-quote="Signorina" data-source="post: 500990"><p>On a more serious note- h and I struggled to have a much wanted 4th child. I had multiple mcs, an exhausting IF workup, non invasive IF trtmt and we tried for years. Let me be clear- it was NEVER about wanting a girl- I just always wanted 4. In fact, one of the criteria for having #3 was that we would have a 4th- 3 seemed like a bad number. </p><p></p><p>We were encouraged to adopt baby 4- specifically a girl from China or Guatamala (we had friends adopting from both places at the time) We didn't pursue it bc we were afraid our boys (esp pc14) would feel like they weren't enough for us. The plan was to be foster parents - either medical or emergency s/t when difficult child went to college but of course that's been blown to bits. Too unpredictable here. :-(</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Signorina, post: 500990"] On a more serious note- h and I struggled to have a much wanted 4th child. I had multiple mcs, an exhausting IF workup, non invasive IF trtmt and we tried for years. Let me be clear- it was NEVER about wanting a girl- I just always wanted 4. In fact, one of the criteria for having #3 was that we would have a 4th- 3 seemed like a bad number. We were encouraged to adopt baby 4- specifically a girl from China or Guatamala (we had friends adopting from both places at the time) We didn't pursue it bc we were afraid our boys (esp pc14) would feel like they weren't enough for us. The plan was to be foster parents - either medical or emergency s/t when difficult child went to college but of course that's been blown to bits. Too unpredictable here. :-( [/QUOTE]
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