I just saw this book on an e-mail from CABF, one of the authors, Laura E. Marshak, she is also going to be the live chat on CABF this Sunday. She is also a parent of a Special Needs child. I am thinking of getting this book, someday! LOL After I get my stack down a little. http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/18...mp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=1890627100 I think a lot of us as parents, whether it is a partner, husband whatever... we all need help on doing it together.