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<blockquote data-quote="HopeRemains" data-source="post: 572773" data-attributes="member: 14139"><p>Oh, greenrene, I could have wrote that entire reply almost word for word! mother in law's are really fun. =/ I can't tell you how many times things just like that have happened to me. You do NOT have to feel guilty about this, not even one OUNCE! I sometimes caught myself daydreaming about letting difficult child just go to his biomom's- or anywhere else! No one deals with this like easy child and I have to, no one knows the extent, because difficult child is a little darling around them most of the time. Small doses of difficult child when you are not his authority start to make people think... hey, I see how to help this child, maybe the parent is just uncapable (just because they gave difficult child a lollipop and that solved the issue for the moment!). I am glad that you have a timeframe on it and hopefully that's enough time for true colors to shine through! </p><p></p><p>I also know all too well feeling like other are judging you on your hypervigilance with difficult child. Every one of husband's family has shown how badly they feel for difficult child and stepped in to resolve situations themselves or just to say "He's okay, he's not doing anything wrong!". It's made me feel like a horrible person so many times, questioning myself. But then, it's just us the next day and difficult child's gloves are off and all that coddling he recieved only empowered him more. If you want to scream, I will scream with you! Hugs</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="HopeRemains, post: 572773, member: 14139"] Oh, greenrene, I could have wrote that entire reply almost word for word! mother in law's are really fun. =/ I can't tell you how many times things just like that have happened to me. You do NOT have to feel guilty about this, not even one OUNCE! I sometimes caught myself daydreaming about letting difficult child just go to his biomom's- or anywhere else! No one deals with this like easy child and I have to, no one knows the extent, because difficult child is a little darling around them most of the time. Small doses of difficult child when you are not his authority start to make people think... hey, I see how to help this child, maybe the parent is just uncapable (just because they gave difficult child a lollipop and that solved the issue for the moment!). I am glad that you have a timeframe on it and hopefully that's enough time for true colors to shine through! I also know all too well feeling like other are judging you on your hypervigilance with difficult child. Every one of husband's family has shown how badly they feel for difficult child and stepped in to resolve situations themselves or just to say "He's okay, he's not doing anything wrong!". It's made me feel like a horrible person so many times, questioning myself. But then, it's just us the next day and difficult child's gloves are off and all that coddling he recieved only empowered him more. If you want to scream, I will scream with you! Hugs [/QUOTE]
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