As I posted last week, DEX, after 6+ years of complete uninvolvement with wee difficult child, called last week asking, on behalf of his whacky girlfriend, to get wee difficult child on Sunday for family photos. We already had plans, which I told him, and he was more than fine with that (I wasn't, because I just know in my gut that this is just the beginning, the woman wants those kids (she even posted on facebook that she can't wait to gain 2 sons and a grandson when she marries DEX - difficult child 1 has told her she is NOT involved in his life - period.)) *** The photos DEX was asking to take wee difficult child to, he said, were supposed to be on Sunday, in a public park on mainstreet of a very small town near us. They were being done thru church. We attended a wedding on Saturday in the same park. easy child 1 didn't want to drive home afterward, so he left his car there. husband took him to get it on Sunday and noticed the park was empty. *** There were no pictures in the park. I looked into it (I get the church emails) and the pictures DEX was talking about were done the previous weekend. *** I also talked to exMIL about my decision to not let wee difficult child go with them. She supports me, as much as she can. She also said that, shortly after difficult child 1's wife and son were in town, whacky girlfriend has talked to them and told them now that she's in the picture, she wants me out of it. And has now been telling DEX and the exInLaws that I am the one sleeping with husband's cousin. *** WHAT??? *** Thankfully, they don't beleive her. And try as I might, I can't come up with why she would do that, other than to cover her own butt in case I were to "tattle" on her. Either that or an attempt to make them unhappy with me so they will get rid of me. *** My only concern in this situation has been wee difficult child and his stability. Whacky girlfriend was still trying to get her paws on wee difficult child, even when her eye was on the door...that doesn't bode well, in my mind, for wee difficult child's stability. Beyond that, I don't care who is sleeping with who. *** Moving is on my mind. How/why do I get dragged into this kinda junk?