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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 556726" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>If you lived in the US, they'd be looking for a childhood diagnosis, not at the family. Sounds as if your son has real trouble attending and learning without one-on-one, which is not his fault or your fault. I'm afraid that all the parenting therapy on earth will not change him because in my opinion he has something going on that he can not help. I do not feel that you and your spouse arguing is the cause of any of this.</p><p></p><p> Do they ever diagnosis learning problems in Argentina? Do they always think it is the parents? It is very frustrating to me to read a post like this as I do not believe it is your son's fault or your fault. And I don't see CD in this. I see Learning Disability (LD)...but I don't know why your child has trouble attending to task and learning. I do not believe it is due to willful defiance.</p><p></p><p>Why are you afraid of Pervasive Developmental Disorder (PDD)? And how does the doctor know for sure that he doesn't have it? To be honest, most of us on this board (certainly most of the Americans) don't even believe ODD and CD are valid diagnoses. They mean "bad behavior" but don't tell you anything about why the behavior is the way it is. Again, I seriously doubt it is because you and your wife fight, even if you feel it is too often.</p><p></p><p>Is there any other sort of professional, other than behavioral, where you can test the way he learns?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 556726, member: 1550"] If you lived in the US, they'd be looking for a childhood diagnosis, not at the family. Sounds as if your son has real trouble attending and learning without one-on-one, which is not his fault or your fault. I'm afraid that all the parenting therapy on earth will not change him because in my opinion he has something going on that he can not help. I do not feel that you and your spouse arguing is the cause of any of this. Do they ever diagnosis learning problems in Argentina? Do they always think it is the parents? It is very frustrating to me to read a post like this as I do not believe it is your son's fault or your fault. And I don't see CD in this. I see Learning Disability (LD)...but I don't know why your child has trouble attending to task and learning. I do not believe it is due to willful defiance. Why are you afraid of Pervasive Developmental Disorder (PDD)? And how does the doctor know for sure that he doesn't have it? To be honest, most of us on this board (certainly most of the Americans) don't even believe ODD and CD are valid diagnoses. They mean "bad behavior" but don't tell you anything about why the behavior is the way it is. Again, I seriously doubt it is because you and your wife fight, even if you feel it is too often. Is there any other sort of professional, other than behavioral, where you can test the way he learns? [/QUOTE]
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