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Involuntary Admission warrant - worthwhile for cluster B personality traits?
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<blockquote data-quote="Snow White" data-source="post: 702771" data-attributes="member: 355"><p>I think that my emotions are being kept a little more in check when I am trying to detach. I see the manipulation/lies more clearly and it does make me angry.</p><p></p><p></p><p>You are right - she believes that my husband and I have the problems. I need to let go of the attempts to get help for her. I sometimes feel that if I'm not trying hard enough to get her help then I'm not a good parent.</p><p></p><p></p><p>I applied for a protection order (Canada's 'restraining order') when she was 18. Magistrate dismissed my application because she felt that the involuntary admission warrant was more applicable. I didn't pursue it at the time. If I hear she is coming back to Canada, I will re-apply for the protection order. I don't trust her.</p><p></p><p></p><p>I couldn't agree more. Her version of the truth is becoming more and more skewed as the years go by.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>Too funny (in a sad way)! Yes, that would probably be the outcome with my daughter.</p><p></p><p>I wish I had a magic pill that would make this right. Sadly, I don't. </p><p></p><p>We were having a good weekend - I have an extended 4 day weekend but daughter seems to know how to wreck everything. Apparently, she didn't get sepsis or die from the post-op infection she demanded $2K for treatment for. No, instead she has her GoFundMe account reinstated and spends hours crafting another hurtful email to me. She picks and chooses select "events" from the past and then brandishes them with her bizarre memories of said events. She often makes me question my sanity when her views of the past are so sick and twisted. </p><p></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #ff0000"><em>And it's about time you heard the truth. <em>Do what you wish after you finish this email. <em>Print it out. Burn it. Share it on social media. Delete it. Block me. I don't care.</em></em></em></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #ff0000"><em><em><em></em></em></em></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #ff0000"><em>When I fell ill with a serious post op infection. An open wound. I called, sobbing, an IV still in my wrist. <em>I needed help. Whether emotional or financial. You refused both. Your maniacal and sociopathic behaviors will no longer affect or control my life. And I will be making it known to the public just how twisted and abusive you really are. For your sake - let's hope you're six feet under for when my first chapter is published. I loved you. I believed you could change. But during our last phone call. You destroyed it all.</em></em></span></span></p><p></p><p>An IV still in her wrist? All the way from surgery on October 23rd to a flight to Nepal a few days ago? Seriously?</p><p></p><p>The rest of the email was vulgar, hurtful and without insight. I feel like I'm at a funeral....mourning for the loss of a relationship that cannot be yet trying to move forward.</p><p></p><p>Hubby and I are going out for dinner with friends tonight (booked last week). I'm not going to let this ruin yet another event for us. I haven't told my husband the details of the email. I think the best thing for me to do is to not even respond to the email. I know that's what she wants.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Snow White, post: 702771, member: 355"] I think that my emotions are being kept a little more in check when I am trying to detach. I see the manipulation/lies more clearly and it does make me angry. You are right - she believes that my husband and I have the problems. I need to let go of the attempts to get help for her. I sometimes feel that if I'm not trying hard enough to get her help then I'm not a good parent. I applied for a protection order (Canada's 'restraining order') when she was 18. Magistrate dismissed my application because she felt that the involuntary admission warrant was more applicable. I didn't pursue it at the time. If I hear she is coming back to Canada, I will re-apply for the protection order. I don't trust her. I couldn't agree more. Her version of the truth is becoming more and more skewed as the years go by. Too funny (in a sad way)! Yes, that would probably be the outcome with my daughter. I wish I had a magic pill that would make this right. Sadly, I don't. We were having a good weekend - I have an extended 4 day weekend but daughter seems to know how to wreck everything. Apparently, she didn't get sepsis or die from the post-op infection she demanded $2K for treatment for. No, instead she has her GoFundMe account reinstated and spends hours crafting another hurtful email to me. She picks and chooses select "events" from the past and then brandishes them with her bizarre memories of said events. She often makes me question my sanity when her views of the past are so sick and twisted. [SIZE=3][COLOR=#ff0000][I]And it's about time you heard the truth. [I]Do what you wish after you finish this email. [I]Print it out. Burn it. Share it on social media. Delete it. Block me. I don't care. [/I][/I] When I fell ill with a serious post op infection. An open wound. I called, sobbing, an IV still in my wrist. [I]I needed help. Whether emotional or financial. You refused both. Your maniacal and sociopathic behaviors will no longer affect or control my life. And I will be making it known to the public just how twisted and abusive you really are. For your sake - let's hope you're six feet under for when my first chapter is published. I loved you. I believed you could change. But during our last phone call. You destroyed it all.[/I][/I][/COLOR][/SIZE] An IV still in her wrist? All the way from surgery on October 23rd to a flight to Nepal a few days ago? Seriously? The rest of the email was vulgar, hurtful and without insight. I feel like I'm at a funeral....mourning for the loss of a relationship that cannot be yet trying to move forward. Hubby and I are going out for dinner with friends tonight (booked last week). I'm not going to let this ruin yet another event for us. I haven't told my husband the details of the email. I think the best thing for me to do is to not even respond to the email. I know that's what she wants. [/QUOTE]
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