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Involuntary Admission warrant - worthwhile for cluster B personality traits?
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<blockquote data-quote="recoveringenabler" data-source="post: 702814" data-attributes="member: 13542"><p>This statement is often the root of how we stay stuck in our adult kids chaotic lives.......we take on part of their belief that it is our problem, we try to help, we feel guilt that we aren't trying hard enough because we are a bad parent. There begins the hamster wheel we get caught in. Your daughter is a master manipulator who will use ANYthing, anything at all, to get what she wants. I would proceed wth extreme caution. Protect yourself in whatever way you can.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>Having spent a good amount of time around family members who are mentally ill, it is a typical response to question your own sanity.......we are often no match for their brilliance, their cunning and their ability to fabricate the truth. I think the bottom line is you must protect yourself, your family and your home in whatever ways are necessary, I believe that to be your number one priority now. It may also be prudent to severely limit any interactions with your daughter. </p><p></p><p>Get as much support as you can as you detach from your daughter's chaotic life.......focus on you and your family.....</p><p></p><p>I'm sorry, I know how hard this is....</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="recoveringenabler, post: 702814, member: 13542"] This statement is often the root of how we stay stuck in our adult kids chaotic lives.......we take on part of their belief that it is our problem, we try to help, we feel guilt that we aren't trying hard enough because we are a bad parent. There begins the hamster wheel we get caught in. Your daughter is a master manipulator who will use ANYthing, anything at all, to get what she wants. I would proceed wth extreme caution. Protect yourself in whatever way you can. Having spent a good amount of time around family members who are mentally ill, it is a typical response to question your own sanity.......we are often no match for their brilliance, their cunning and their ability to fabricate the truth. I think the bottom line is you must protect yourself, your family and your home in whatever ways are necessary, I believe that to be your number one priority now. It may also be prudent to severely limit any interactions with your daughter. Get as much support as you can as you detach from your daughter's chaotic life.......focus on you and your family..... I'm sorry, I know how hard this is.... [/QUOTE]
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