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<blockquote data-quote="Belzog" data-source="post: 175665" data-attributes="member: 5542"><p>I have a list of requirements for my son to live here after he turns 18 next month. It is a detailed list, but falls into 2 basic catagories: express interest in being alive now, as evinced by self care/hygiene and community involvement; and express interest in having a future by going to school. Other items include basics like: don't break the law, don't lie to me, do household chores. See? It ain't hard.</p><p> </p><p>Unfortunately, he has passed the deadline for "toeing the line," and has to move out. I told him he can't get it in gear 2 days before his birthday. So he MUST move out, but if he wants to come back he is welcome, but he will find himself out the door again if he reverts back to his shenanigans. </p><p> </p><p>Also, I have informed him that I think it would be a good thing if he stayed here til he has another place to live lined up, but that is dependant on his behavior as well. I had a sit-down with him this last weekend and told him if he does the things he's done lately after he turns 18, I'll drive him to a shelter or somewhere, still working on that.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Belzog, post: 175665, member: 5542"] I have a list of requirements for my son to live here after he turns 18 next month. It is a detailed list, but falls into 2 basic catagories: express interest in being alive now, as evinced by self care/hygiene and community involvement; and express interest in having a future by going to school. Other items include basics like: don't break the law, don't lie to me, do household chores. See? It ain't hard. Unfortunately, he has passed the deadline for "toeing the line," and has to move out. I told him he can't get it in gear 2 days before his birthday. So he MUST move out, but if he wants to come back he is welcome, but he will find himself out the door again if he reverts back to his shenanigans. Also, I have informed him that I think it would be a good thing if he stayed here til he has another place to live lined up, but that is dependant on his behavior as well. I had a sit-down with him this last weekend and told him if he does the things he's done lately after he turns 18, I'll drive him to a shelter or somewhere, still working on that. [/QUOTE]
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