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Is he just stupid, or what?
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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 145527" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>Mutt, </p><p></p><p>I want you to know first, I am laughing with you, not at you. Second I think it's that they ARE that stupid. </p><p></p><p>This is the "thing" that gets me every time with Dude vs. natural consequences. I listen to all the exerts EVERY SINGLE TIME he had gotten into trouble in the past tell me "Let natural consequences bite him in the kiester." So we sat back, shut our mouths, let the law do what it would do and the ones that were left to deal with the fallout EVER SINGLE TIME - were DF and I. </p><p></p><p>Someway - someHOW, ever time something has been left to natural consequences we were brought into the scene. We stayed out of it all and then BLAMO - it's like "Okay natural consequences have occurred 1,285 times and this kid does NOT NOT NOT get "IT" - so you the parents MUST have done SOMETHING WRONG WRONG WRONG....and we sit there like idiots going "But we DID what the professionals told us to do." and yet after the fact NO ONE (not a judge, PD, DA) no one wants to really hear our side of it. </p><p></p><p>And you would think that 1,285 times would tell a kid - GET WITH THE PROGRAM OR YOU ARE GOING TO JAIL.....but nope. And now - your son will be going to jail because you allowed natural consequences to happen and I guess my question is WHO do the COURTS think REALLY will be helping that girl with a baby and one on the way? But yet - let anything happen to her or those kids and EVERYONE would point the finger at YOU. </p><p></p><p>Makes me sick to my stomach that no one understands our kids. I would LOVE to be a fly on the wall in that courtroom that would allow you to be able to VENT to the JUDGE in this case and tell him that you HAVE tried to help, but throw yourself on the mercy of the court because your son is NEVER going to get it, but NEEDS to not be in jail to pay for a family he created because he NEVER GOT THAT either. (despite your grandkids being just cute as a button) </p><p></p><p>Hugs - Strength-Support - Ears -Understanding</p><p></p><p>Star</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 145527, member: 4964"] Mutt, I want you to know first, I am laughing with you, not at you. Second I think it's that they ARE that stupid. This is the "thing" that gets me every time with Dude vs. natural consequences. I listen to all the exerts EVERY SINGLE TIME he had gotten into trouble in the past tell me "Let natural consequences bite him in the kiester." So we sat back, shut our mouths, let the law do what it would do and the ones that were left to deal with the fallout EVER SINGLE TIME - were DF and I. Someway - someHOW, ever time something has been left to natural consequences we were brought into the scene. We stayed out of it all and then BLAMO - it's like "Okay natural consequences have occurred 1,285 times and this kid does NOT NOT NOT get "IT" - so you the parents MUST have done SOMETHING WRONG WRONG WRONG....and we sit there like idiots going "But we DID what the professionals told us to do." and yet after the fact NO ONE (not a judge, PD, DA) no one wants to really hear our side of it. And you would think that 1,285 times would tell a kid - GET WITH THE PROGRAM OR YOU ARE GOING TO JAIL.....but nope. And now - your son will be going to jail because you allowed natural consequences to happen and I guess my question is WHO do the COURTS think REALLY will be helping that girl with a baby and one on the way? But yet - let anything happen to her or those kids and EVERYONE would point the finger at YOU. Makes me sick to my stomach that no one understands our kids. I would LOVE to be a fly on the wall in that courtroom that would allow you to be able to VENT to the JUDGE in this case and tell him that you HAVE tried to help, but throw yourself on the mercy of the court because your son is NEVER going to get it, but NEEDS to not be in jail to pay for a family he created because he NEVER GOT THAT either. (despite your grandkids being just cute as a button) Hugs - Strength-Support - Ears -Understanding Star [/QUOTE]
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