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Is it ever ok to just be "done?"
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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 687266" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>I wrote a long reply and my battery went dead and I lost it. Here is the summary.</p><p></p><p>Before I say anything I want to say how sorry I am you are suffering this. I know you know this but I will say it again. You do not deserve this hell.</p><p></p><p>Your feelings are the effect of her treatment of you.</p><p></p><p>In the natural order of things it is the normal thing for parents and children to separate. Among animals, in so-called primitive societies, in traditional culture, it is the norm. My grandparents never again saw their parents or spoke to them. Millions of families, experienced the same. Because of opportunity, persecution, ambition, children leave and so do parents.</p><p></p><p>When children are grown.</p><p></p><p>We move heaven and earth for our babies. These are adults who are responsible for their behaviors and their consequences.</p><p></p><p>To allow your daughter to hurt you would be wrong. For her. For you. To submit to that would be wrong.</p><p></p><p>Feeling as you do I would separate now, before you reach the point of indifference and apathy. I would save yourself from that. That way each of you would have a place from which to begin again.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 687266, member: 18958"] I wrote a long reply and my battery went dead and I lost it. Here is the summary. Before I say anything I want to say how sorry I am you are suffering this. I know you know this but I will say it again. You do not deserve this hell. Your feelings are the effect of her treatment of you. In the natural order of things it is the normal thing for parents and children to separate. Among animals, in so-called primitive societies, in traditional culture, it is the norm. My grandparents never again saw their parents or spoke to them. Millions of families, experienced the same. Because of opportunity, persecution, ambition, children leave and so do parents. When children are grown. We move heaven and earth for our babies. These are adults who are responsible for their behaviors and their consequences. To allow your daughter to hurt you would be wrong. For her. For you. To submit to that would be wrong. Feeling as you do I would separate now, before you reach the point of indifference and apathy. I would save yourself from that. That way each of you would have a place from which to begin again. [/QUOTE]
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