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Is it ever ok to just be "done?"
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 687321" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>The question then is, was she slways this divided and difficult. If she was ,well, borderlines self destruct. They cut. They break the law . They use people. They like drugs. </p><p></p><p>They see everything in black and white. There is no gray in their world. You are all bad or all good and it can change day to day, but certain behaviors of not getting along with anyone or extreme moodswings etc, may have started in childhood, way before the drugs. They are beginning to study the behaviors of borderline adults as children.</p><p></p><p></p><p>My daughter lied and manipulated during her drug days (although on her worst drug day, she was never mean). She did not lie or manipulate before drugs and doesnt do it now, after drugs. She does not have a personality disorder, although drug use changed her a lot while she did it. She was moody, slept a lot cried often, argued....she was different on drugs.</p><p></p><p>They are just now discovering that, yes, borderline runs in families. This is new info. Borderlines, antisocials, narcissistics are part of our genepool, even when adopted. Interesting to study. Easygoing temperments are also often hereditary. It is why when adoptive parents meet their childs bithparents, whom neither ever knew, so many are shocked that they are more like bio.family than adoptive family.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 687321, member: 1550"] The question then is, was she slways this divided and difficult. If she was ,well, borderlines self destruct. They cut. They break the law . They use people. They like drugs. They see everything in black and white. There is no gray in their world. You are all bad or all good and it can change day to day, but certain behaviors of not getting along with anyone or extreme moodswings etc, may have started in childhood, way before the drugs. They are beginning to study the behaviors of borderline adults as children. My daughter lied and manipulated during her drug days (although on her worst drug day, she was never mean). She did not lie or manipulate before drugs and doesnt do it now, after drugs. She does not have a personality disorder, although drug use changed her a lot while she did it. She was moody, slept a lot cried often, argued....she was different on drugs. They are just now discovering that, yes, borderline runs in families. This is new info. Borderlines, antisocials, narcissistics are part of our genepool, even when adopted. Interesting to study. Easygoing temperments are also often hereditary. It is why when adoptive parents meet their childs bithparents, whom neither ever knew, so many are shocked that they are more like bio.family than adoptive family. [/QUOTE]
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