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Is it ever ok to just be "done?"
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<blockquote data-quote="so ready to live" data-source="post: 687686" data-attributes="member: 20054"><p>So my situation also...I do let the ensuing fear continue though..locking my doors, praying he won't show up to bring his anger to my doorstep. I never come over the hill to where my house is in sight, without hoping his car is not there and planning to drive on by my own house. Sick.</p><p></p><p></p><p>This may have some bearing, as a mom, are we more afraid of our sons and so react accordingly?</p><p></p><p></p><p>I got no text/call for the first time ever, there has been no contact for over 6 wks. Makes me wonder if he is "out of it" somewhere, or simply punishing us for giving him no sympathy, $, assistance anymore. Such an ugly game and Walrus is right in that I don't want to play anymore. </p><p></p><p></p><p>So true. Even my best friend said she would continue trying no matter what, she did seem a little more hesitant when we found drugs in our home. But then many people believe you simply "pack them up and send them to rehab..." If it were only that easy...</p><p>That being said--great thread-thank you all.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="so ready to live, post: 687686, member: 20054"] So my situation also...I do let the ensuing fear continue though..locking my doors, praying he won't show up to bring his anger to my doorstep. I never come over the hill to where my house is in sight, without hoping his car is not there and planning to drive on by my own house. Sick. This may have some bearing, as a mom, are we more afraid of our sons and so react accordingly? I got no text/call for the first time ever, there has been no contact for over 6 wks. Makes me wonder if he is "out of it" somewhere, or simply punishing us for giving him no sympathy, $, assistance anymore. Such an ugly game and Walrus is right in that I don't want to play anymore. So true. Even my best friend said she would continue trying no matter what, she did seem a little more hesitant when we found drugs in our home. But then many people believe you simply "pack them up and send them to rehab..." If it were only that easy... That being said--great thread-thank you all. [/QUOTE]
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