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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 683999" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Hon, our kids adopted out of foster care are not the same as infant adoptions or birthchildren. They have been tossed around from person to person, which impedes normal attachment and also puts rhem at high risk for sexual abuse. They may not cosciosly remember, but their subconscious does. Often in girls this can cause cutting, drug abuse and being promiscuous, but the cause is different from kids who lived more stable lives. It isnt YOUR fault at all, hon . You just want to help her.</p><p>My suggestion is to call an actual adoption agency in your area or your daughters ex caseworker or both to ask if there are any specialists around that are familiar with the unique problems of adopted children. I actually found one who only sees adopted kids and their families and he was worth every other therapist I saw...and then some. He was the only one who, in the end, made sense snd helped.</p><p>Let me know what happens. I care a lot and hope you can find somebody who actually understands your child and can help you help her.</p><p>Lots of hugs. Don't be afraid to call for this reason. Everyone I contacted was nice to me, although not everyone knew where to go for help. It only took one.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 683999, member: 1550"] Hon, our kids adopted out of foster care are not the same as infant adoptions or birthchildren. They have been tossed around from person to person, which impedes normal attachment and also puts rhem at high risk for sexual abuse. They may not cosciosly remember, but their subconscious does. Often in girls this can cause cutting, drug abuse and being promiscuous, but the cause is different from kids who lived more stable lives. It isnt YOUR fault at all, hon . You just want to help her. My suggestion is to call an actual adoption agency in your area or your daughters ex caseworker or both to ask if there are any specialists around that are familiar with the unique problems of adopted children. I actually found one who only sees adopted kids and their families and he was worth every other therapist I saw...and then some. He was the only one who, in the end, made sense snd helped. Let me know what happens. I care a lot and hope you can find somebody who actually understands your child and can help you help her. Lots of hugs. Don't be afraid to call for this reason. Everyone I contacted was nice to me, although not everyone knew where to go for help. It only took one. [/QUOTE]
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