Things have been very tense over here the past couple of weeks...
After difficult child was busted for IM-ing twenty-somethings to set up dates, she was "grounded" for one week. We also told her that she would not be getting computer priviledges back for the foreseeable future.
So she's been extra moody and irritable.
Then report cards came out and she tried to explain away the grades - again.
Then she found out that the low grades made her ineligible for a program she wanted to join next year...and THAT made her mad.
Had a rage last weekend over whether or not it was "fair" for her to be expected to pick up a piece of paper from the floor if we could not prove that she was the one who dropped it.
Has been mouthing off to her Dad all week and calling him names.
TODAY - she wants to speak with us about a priviledge she feels she should have. Right now, DS has a tv and video game system in his bedroom. (The tv only gets a couple of local channels.) husband and I made certain rules about playing video games and DS has been very good about following the rules.
Well, difficult child feels that she should also have a tv and video game system - and if she can't have her own, then the one DS has should be moved into her bedroom and they can takes turns sharing it every-other-week.
And the fact that husband and I did not immediately jump up and make those changes seemed to irritate difficult child.
So - it is me?
Where does this kid get the gall to ask for priviledges right now?
AND feel justified in taking things away from her brother?
I guess husband and I really are the worst parents in the whole world because we just can't see how "reasonable" this request is.
I'm sure difficult child will mention this to the therapist this week. She likes to tell therapist about all of our many "abuses"...
--sigh--
After difficult child was busted for IM-ing twenty-somethings to set up dates, she was "grounded" for one week. We also told her that she would not be getting computer priviledges back for the foreseeable future.
So she's been extra moody and irritable.
Then report cards came out and she tried to explain away the grades - again.
Then she found out that the low grades made her ineligible for a program she wanted to join next year...and THAT made her mad.
Had a rage last weekend over whether or not it was "fair" for her to be expected to pick up a piece of paper from the floor if we could not prove that she was the one who dropped it.
Has been mouthing off to her Dad all week and calling him names.
TODAY - she wants to speak with us about a priviledge she feels she should have. Right now, DS has a tv and video game system in his bedroom. (The tv only gets a couple of local channels.) husband and I made certain rules about playing video games and DS has been very good about following the rules.
Well, difficult child feels that she should also have a tv and video game system - and if she can't have her own, then the one DS has should be moved into her bedroom and they can takes turns sharing it every-other-week.
And the fact that husband and I did not immediately jump up and make those changes seemed to irritate difficult child.
So - it is me?
Where does this kid get the gall to ask for priviledges right now?
AND feel justified in taking things away from her brother?
I guess husband and I really are the worst parents in the whole world because we just can't see how "reasonable" this request is.
I'm sure difficult child will mention this to the therapist this week. She likes to tell therapist about all of our many "abuses"...
--sigh--