I need a reality check. I have a situation that gets on my nerves and I want to be proactive vs. reactive. So I'm asking for others opinions.
This scene is played out over and over in many different ways in my family.
We are having a family reunion (husband's family) Saturday. My stepson is hosting the party. He asked me to post an event on FB. I did 2 months ago. His wife wont do it because shes a snot. I offered to keep the food list and come up with some kid games. Also there is a little park near me that I can rent of very cheap. I told my step son about it and asked if he wanted me to do that. He said yes.
Now it's time for the party. My 3 daughter in law's are complaining about the park. They want to know why I picked it. I didn't.
I have bought bubble wands for all the kids that will be there. (over 30) I have also bought a piñata and stuff to fill it. I planned out a couple of kid games and got prizes for those games. Last night I was informed that it's not fair that some kids will win prizes and others wont. Even though they all get bubbles and piñata stuff.
OK I was taught that people offer the help they can give. You either graciously accept or decline. If you accept you don't b$tch about it. You also don't dictate what help is offered. I swear these people feel entitled to everything and do none of the work. No one else in the family has done anything to help my stepson.
Am I weird for wanting to say to heck with you all? It's like noting is ever good enough so there is no point in trying. If I am wrong please say so. That's why I'm posting. To figure out if I'm being sensitive or they are being rude.
This scene is played out over and over in many different ways in my family.
We are having a family reunion (husband's family) Saturday. My stepson is hosting the party. He asked me to post an event on FB. I did 2 months ago. His wife wont do it because shes a snot. I offered to keep the food list and come up with some kid games. Also there is a little park near me that I can rent of very cheap. I told my step son about it and asked if he wanted me to do that. He said yes.
Now it's time for the party. My 3 daughter in law's are complaining about the park. They want to know why I picked it. I didn't.
I have bought bubble wands for all the kids that will be there. (over 30) I have also bought a piñata and stuff to fill it. I planned out a couple of kid games and got prizes for those games. Last night I was informed that it's not fair that some kids will win prizes and others wont. Even though they all get bubbles and piñata stuff.
OK I was taught that people offer the help they can give. You either graciously accept or decline. If you accept you don't b$tch about it. You also don't dictate what help is offered. I swear these people feel entitled to everything and do none of the work. No one else in the family has done anything to help my stepson.
Am I weird for wanting to say to heck with you all? It's like noting is ever good enough so there is no point in trying. If I am wrong please say so. That's why I'm posting. To figure out if I'm being sensitive or they are being rude.