lisa3girls
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and contrary about everything?? My conversation today with 16 yo about upcoming college recruiting weekend for equestrians....
Me: We are staying in the Marriott next weekend in xxxx town
Her: OK, why not the host hotel?
Me: point, marriott free
Her: OK
at this point I am thinking cool, decent conversation
Than me: M, since your riding coach is now a judge for college equestrian why don't you ask her to give you some .......
Her: Don't your remember I told you, I am GOING with her to one.
Me: Ok
Her: You know, during my Feb break from school
Me: Ok, but that is AFTER your recruiting weekend
Her: So????? I KNOW everything about it, I read about it anway, I know what to do, what they want
Me: Well, ok, but I just thought maybe that since....
Her: I KNOW!!!! I READ about it!!
The ..... is where she butts in and talks over me before I even SAY what I mean to say--- she does this ALL the time.
Then- she was driving (she has a permit) and this is how it went:
Me: You are too far to the right, getting in the snow...please move left
Her: I KNOWWWWWWWW!!!!!!!!
Me: Ok, I am trying to help you learn, you need to keep your right.......
Her: I KNOW, (now mocking tone)...I NEED to keep my right tires in the road blah blah rant
Me: Ok, but you were speeding up, and that is when.....
Her: I DIDN'T MEAN to SPEED UP!!!
Me: Ok, it doesn't matter if you meant to, but you did and so the reason why....
Her: I know why, you don't have to tell me everything!
Me: Actually I am teaching you right now and if I perceive you did something that you shouldn't, I need to tell you and you need to listen and not argue....
Her: But I KNOW, I am NOT arguing.....
sigh
Me: We are staying in the Marriott next weekend in xxxx town
Her: OK, why not the host hotel?
Me: point, marriott free
Her: OK
at this point I am thinking cool, decent conversation
Than me: M, since your riding coach is now a judge for college equestrian why don't you ask her to give you some .......
Her: Don't your remember I told you, I am GOING with her to one.
Me: Ok
Her: You know, during my Feb break from school
Me: Ok, but that is AFTER your recruiting weekend
Her: So????? I KNOW everything about it, I read about it anway, I know what to do, what they want
Me: Well, ok, but I just thought maybe that since....
Her: I KNOW!!!! I READ about it!!
The ..... is where she butts in and talks over me before I even SAY what I mean to say--- she does this ALL the time.
Then- she was driving (she has a permit) and this is how it went:
Me: You are too far to the right, getting in the snow...please move left
Her: I KNOWWWWWWWW!!!!!!!!
Me: Ok, I am trying to help you learn, you need to keep your right.......
Her: I KNOW, (now mocking tone)...I NEED to keep my right tires in the road blah blah rant
Me: Ok, but you were speeding up, and that is when.....
Her: I DIDN'T MEAN to SPEED UP!!!
Me: Ok, it doesn't matter if you meant to, but you did and so the reason why....
Her: I know why, you don't have to tell me everything!
Me: Actually I am teaching you right now and if I perceive you did something that you shouldn't, I need to tell you and you need to listen and not argue....
Her: But I KNOW, I am NOT arguing.....
sigh