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Is it possible to help a difficult child too much??
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<blockquote data-quote="Loving Abbey 2" data-source="post: 146696" data-attributes="member: 4845"><p>thanks everyone for your support on this one. I know Abbey needs support and structure and she does well with that. We meet again tomorrow, I hope it goes better. They basically want me to provide less structure and support so that when things do not go as planned difficult child can tolerate it without additional reassuring, support, ect. She's just not ready for that yet. When she has been told what is going to happen, she accepts it and moves through the plan. When you suddenly take out a peice of the plan, she has a hard time, so I reassure her and we talk about the change so she is prepared and has time to process it. She has time to switch gears mentally. And then she does and we go along and it's okay. This system works. </p><p> </p><p>I'm sticking to my guns on this one.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Loving Abbey 2, post: 146696, member: 4845"] thanks everyone for your support on this one. I know Abbey needs support and structure and she does well with that. We meet again tomorrow, I hope it goes better. They basically want me to provide less structure and support so that when things do not go as planned difficult child can tolerate it without additional reassuring, support, ect. She's just not ready for that yet. When she has been told what is going to happen, she accepts it and moves through the plan. When you suddenly take out a peice of the plan, she has a hard time, so I reassure her and we talk about the change so she is prepared and has time to process it. She has time to switch gears mentally. And then she does and we go along and it's okay. This system works. I'm sticking to my guns on this one. [/QUOTE]
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