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Is pushing (not hitting) abuse?
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<blockquote data-quote="DaisyFace" data-source="post: 367662" data-attributes="member: 6546"><p>For me? The "deal breaker" is the fact that this woman is accepting responsibility for her SO's actions by explaining that "She eggs him on"....</p><p> </p><p>Abusers LOVE to explain that they are not at fault because the abusee was "pushing their buttons" or otherwise "asking for it".</p><p> </p><p>The fact that your friend is buying into that theory is a HUGE red flag for future trouble. I hope you can find a way to gently point that out to her before things get worse...</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DaisyFace, post: 367662, member: 6546"] For me? The "deal breaker" is the fact that this woman is accepting responsibility for her SO's actions by explaining that "She eggs him on".... Abusers LOVE to explain that they are not at fault because the abusee was "pushing their buttons" or otherwise "asking for it". The fact that your friend is buying into that theory is a HUGE red flag for future trouble. I hope you can find a way to gently point that out to her before things get worse... [/QUOTE]
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