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<blockquote data-quote="paperplate" data-source="post: 579377" data-attributes="member: 15831"><p>ugh, this stuff makes me nervous. I have 2 sons, 2 daughters and I always worry about this kind of stuff. I think you'd be better off talking to his parents. They may not realize the girl is only 14. And they may think you approve. I'd have a hard time labeling a kid a sex offender. I was a teen mom with my oldest (she's 20 now). I know they probably makes you feel WORSE! LOL Sorry, it's just, I dated my first boyfriend, starting at 14, he was a senior 18 and I was a Freshman. Anyway, when I was 16, I finally caved and 9 months later, my daughter was born. My parents probably could have pursued a case, but my mother knew we were both just infatuated teenagers and giving him a label would just have made his life miserable. Basically, he'd have been paying for that the rest of his life and teens, by nature, are impulsive. They only think with their emotions and ZERO logic. Today, my first boyfriend (DD20's dad), is now married with kids. He doesn't see daughter much, but he got his college degree etc.., bought a home and lives a happy. And I don't think he's a bad guy. We were just kids. I'm glad my mom didn't take us down to the police department. Mainly because even at that age, I was a WILLING participant. I knew exactly what I was doing. Maybe, just talking to the boys parents will help. Or explain it to the boy personally. But I agree with above poster. If you fight her on it too much, you can actually wind up pushing them together. On the other hand, if it's got nothing to do with age, but instead his character, I'd check into his background too!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="paperplate, post: 579377, member: 15831"] ugh, this stuff makes me nervous. I have 2 sons, 2 daughters and I always worry about this kind of stuff. I think you'd be better off talking to his parents. They may not realize the girl is only 14. And they may think you approve. I'd have a hard time labeling a kid a sex offender. I was a teen mom with my oldest (she's 20 now). I know they probably makes you feel WORSE! LOL Sorry, it's just, I dated my first boyfriend, starting at 14, he was a senior 18 and I was a Freshman. Anyway, when I was 16, I finally caved and 9 months later, my daughter was born. My parents probably could have pursued a case, but my mother knew we were both just infatuated teenagers and giving him a label would just have made his life miserable. Basically, he'd have been paying for that the rest of his life and teens, by nature, are impulsive. They only think with their emotions and ZERO logic. Today, my first boyfriend (DD20's dad), is now married with kids. He doesn't see daughter much, but he got his college degree etc.., bought a home and lives a happy. And I don't think he's a bad guy. We were just kids. I'm glad my mom didn't take us down to the police department. Mainly because even at that age, I was a WILLING participant. I knew exactly what I was doing. Maybe, just talking to the boys parents will help. Or explain it to the boy personally. But I agree with above poster. If you fight her on it too much, you can actually wind up pushing them together. On the other hand, if it's got nothing to do with age, but instead his character, I'd check into his background too! [/QUOTE]
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