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<blockquote data-quote="ksm" data-source="post: 591456" data-attributes="member: 12511"><p>THanks for all the ideas and the virtual empathy. I do need to make an appointment just for me - it has been a while. I had tried antidepressant (Lexapro) but couldn't handle it. </p><p></p><p>I am going to try to stop dwelling on the negative. Sometimes husband and I "compare" notes and then we both get upset again when we learn how the other got treated. Will try to put a stop to going over the bad behavior as it just upsets both of us. But I know there will always be things we have to deal with.</p><p></p><p>I woke up feeling better about the situation - but then, when I started the car, I found a shirt in the back seat I had never seen before. Little sis said it was difficult child's. I know I had never seen it before - and when difficult child came to the car she said she had "found it at the mall bathroom". ... and the mall was getting ready to close so she just brought it home. There are no tags on it... it doesn't look like it has been washed (or if it has - not much by examing the labels on it). Plus it is a size that fits difficult child and it is something that I would have never wanted her to wear... the back is cut out and it is just black lace. If I had time today, I would have taken it to the mall and looked in the shops... there are only a couple that cater to teen girls and see if the brand is something they sell there. (if it looks like a duck... it is probably a duck...) </p><p></p><p>On Thursday, I have the appointment with the neuropsychologist - (without difficult child) I guess to see what tests she wants to order based on the questionnaires we filled out last year. (last year ins denied the testing) Hoping withour new insurance we will get the testing and will know more of what is going on. It is so hard when the mental health professionals don't have anything to offer and neither does the school system. KSM</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="ksm, post: 591456, member: 12511"] THanks for all the ideas and the virtual empathy. I do need to make an appointment just for me - it has been a while. I had tried antidepressant (Lexapro) but couldn't handle it. I am going to try to stop dwelling on the negative. Sometimes husband and I "compare" notes and then we both get upset again when we learn how the other got treated. Will try to put a stop to going over the bad behavior as it just upsets both of us. But I know there will always be things we have to deal with. I woke up feeling better about the situation - but then, when I started the car, I found a shirt in the back seat I had never seen before. Little sis said it was difficult child's. I know I had never seen it before - and when difficult child came to the car she said she had "found it at the mall bathroom". ... and the mall was getting ready to close so she just brought it home. There are no tags on it... it doesn't look like it has been washed (or if it has - not much by examing the labels on it). Plus it is a size that fits difficult child and it is something that I would have never wanted her to wear... the back is cut out and it is just black lace. If I had time today, I would have taken it to the mall and looked in the shops... there are only a couple that cater to teen girls and see if the brand is something they sell there. (if it looks like a duck... it is probably a duck...) On Thursday, I have the appointment with the neuropsychologist - (without difficult child) I guess to see what tests she wants to order based on the questionnaires we filled out last year. (last year ins denied the testing) Hoping withour new insurance we will get the testing and will know more of what is going on. It is so hard when the mental health professionals don't have anything to offer and neither does the school system. KSM [/QUOTE]
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