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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 557914" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>The most helpful advice I can give you is to break up with SO. You don't believe that the child may actually be acting the way he does because he has so many disorders, but that's not true. You probably think the right discipline, diet, etc. will change him. It won't. Also, it sounds like SO is not going to stand in your corner. I do think the best advice I can give you is to break it off because the child isn't going to get easier. And you don't believe he is much else other than a "bad, spoiled kid." Sorry, but we've heard it before. </p><p></p><p>I'm going to look up Earlys Syndrome. I never heard of it. </p><p></p><p>I won't give you any more advice, but I had to speak my mind.So many of us hear "he's the way he is because of your parenting" that it irks at least ME. Too many people do not understand our children...it is disheartening. On top of that, you are NOT his mother. in my opinion you have the right to talk about your relationship with SO, and you have the right to talk to SO about his child (knowing that his child is HIS child and he knows him better than you do), but in my opinion you do not have the right to try to parent his child based on your limited knowledge of his conditions and also based on the fact that you are not his parent. </p><p></p><p>I will shut up now.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 557914, member: 1550"] The most helpful advice I can give you is to break up with SO. You don't believe that the child may actually be acting the way he does because he has so many disorders, but that's not true. You probably think the right discipline, diet, etc. will change him. It won't. Also, it sounds like SO is not going to stand in your corner. I do think the best advice I can give you is to break it off because the child isn't going to get easier. And you don't believe he is much else other than a "bad, spoiled kid." Sorry, but we've heard it before. I'm going to look up Earlys Syndrome. I never heard of it. I won't give you any more advice, but I had to speak my mind.So many of us hear "he's the way he is because of your parenting" that it irks at least ME. Too many people do not understand our children...it is disheartening. On top of that, you are NOT his mother. in my opinion you have the right to talk about your relationship with SO, and you have the right to talk to SO about his child (knowing that his child is HIS child and he knows him better than you do), but in my opinion you do not have the right to try to parent his child based on your limited knowledge of his conditions and also based on the fact that you are not his parent. I will shut up now. [/QUOTE]
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