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<blockquote data-quote="SuZir" data-source="post: 557986" data-attributes="member: 14557"><p>I don't think you are wrong. Still my advise would be to run, to be honest.</p><p></p><p>That kind of family dynamic will be almost impossible to break from outside. And the difficult child is in the age where worst years are still in front of you. Think long and hard if this is, what you want.</p><p></p><p>I do believe that my difficult child has been difficult child from birth. But things have certainly influenced him for better and for worse. If anything, being a difficult child has made him more vulnerable for outside influences. With easy child it seems that whatever happens, he can get by. He does survive. With difficult child, things get little sideways and he develops a huge problem.</p><p></p><p>Our parenting is one of the big influences. There has been things that we have been good at, things that me have been able to make a difference with parenting. And every screw up we have made with him seems to come back in double or triple too. With difficult children good parenting is even more important than with easy child. It doesn't change them to PCs but bad parenting certainly escalates every problem. And things like diet, sleep, electronics, consistency, empathy towards a child and discipline are huge things with them.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="SuZir, post: 557986, member: 14557"] I don't think you are wrong. Still my advise would be to run, to be honest. That kind of family dynamic will be almost impossible to break from outside. And the difficult child is in the age where worst years are still in front of you. Think long and hard if this is, what you want. I do believe that my difficult child has been difficult child from birth. But things have certainly influenced him for better and for worse. If anything, being a difficult child has made him more vulnerable for outside influences. With easy child it seems that whatever happens, he can get by. He does survive. With difficult child, things get little sideways and he develops a huge problem. Our parenting is one of the big influences. There has been things that we have been good at, things that me have been able to make a difference with parenting. And every screw up we have made with him seems to come back in double or triple too. With difficult children good parenting is even more important than with easy child. It doesn't change them to PCs but bad parenting certainly escalates every problem. And things like diet, sleep, electronics, consistency, empathy towards a child and discipline are huge things with them. [/QUOTE]
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