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<blockquote data-quote="Mattsmom277" data-source="post: 318739" data-attributes="member: 4264"><p>Deep breaths! No doubt I'd need them to stop me from doing something that likely would have my butt in the female section of the prison J sounds like he's headed back to in no time given his track record.</p><p></p><p>I hate to sound awful, but your H needs a reality check. His son is NOT the well doing/meaning/living son he might have dreamed of. He's a convicted con, long term drug addict, parolee, repeat offender. Would he rent a room to him if he was taking in a boarder? UH NO. Would he rent a room to him as a boarder, leave valuables accesible, allow drug dealers and criminals to have the home pegged as his official residence, then out of kindness of his heart, hand money over to him and support him rent free, etc? I highly doubt it. Loving his son is part of being a father. Understanding who his son has become is part of living in the real world. Painful realizations certainly, but long overdue.</p><p></p><p>I do hope you dont have to face this situation being put into practice. At the same time, from my experiences, just the fact that your H went ahead to make this offer and discarded your very realistic fears/worries is enough to damage a marriage. He needs to wake up. Down a great wife and up a career criminal?? He needs to cut the apron strings and put that energy into your marriage. </p><p></p><p>(((hugs)))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Mattsmom277, post: 318739, member: 4264"] Deep breaths! No doubt I'd need them to stop me from doing something that likely would have my butt in the female section of the prison J sounds like he's headed back to in no time given his track record. I hate to sound awful, but your H needs a reality check. His son is NOT the well doing/meaning/living son he might have dreamed of. He's a convicted con, long term drug addict, parolee, repeat offender. Would he rent a room to him if he was taking in a boarder? UH NO. Would he rent a room to him as a boarder, leave valuables accesible, allow drug dealers and criminals to have the home pegged as his official residence, then out of kindness of his heart, hand money over to him and support him rent free, etc? I highly doubt it. Loving his son is part of being a father. Understanding who his son has become is part of living in the real world. Painful realizations certainly, but long overdue. I do hope you dont have to face this situation being put into practice. At the same time, from my experiences, just the fact that your H went ahead to make this offer and discarded your very realistic fears/worries is enough to damage a marriage. He needs to wake up. Down a great wife and up a career criminal?? He needs to cut the apron strings and put that energy into your marriage. (((hugs))) [/QUOTE]
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