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<blockquote data-quote="toughlovin" data-source="post: 507776"><p>Yes Nancy I have reached that enough is enough stage. I am done until he gets treatment. I did text him today to let him know we are done paying for sober houses... he didn't get the text... I wonder if he somehow blocks me but anyway I have decided I wont text him again. I will wait to hear from him and know it may be awhile. I bet he has found some druggies to hang out with for awhile.</p><p></p><p>Jane your son and my son sound very similar. My son has always worked to get around or break the rules, all rules everywhere... and he also has major issues with authority. He will be very charming and likeablel to authority and then do something to break the rules where it is not always obvious. I don't think he sees anything wrong with stealing what he wants when he wants it.... If he doesnt go for tx it probably wont be long until he is arrested. And he is far away from us so there is no question of us posting bail and going to pick him up.</p><p></p><p>I do think however that adoption issues are big for him although I am not sure he is very in touch with those feelings.</p><p></p><p>Who knows... in many ways i don't really feel I know my son. I know the little boy who was a challenge but also wonderful.... this young man I really dont know and to be honest don't like very much either.</p><p></p><p>I cant tell you how much all of your support and solidarity means to me, This board is an emotional life saver for me.</p><p></p><p>TL</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="toughlovin, post: 507776"] Yes Nancy I have reached that enough is enough stage. I am done until he gets treatment. I did text him today to let him know we are done paying for sober houses... he didn't get the text... I wonder if he somehow blocks me but anyway I have decided I wont text him again. I will wait to hear from him and know it may be awhile. I bet he has found some druggies to hang out with for awhile. Jane your son and my son sound very similar. My son has always worked to get around or break the rules, all rules everywhere... and he also has major issues with authority. He will be very charming and likeablel to authority and then do something to break the rules where it is not always obvious. I don't think he sees anything wrong with stealing what he wants when he wants it.... If he doesnt go for tx it probably wont be long until he is arrested. And he is far away from us so there is no question of us posting bail and going to pick him up. I do think however that adoption issues are big for him although I am not sure he is very in touch with those feelings. Who knows... in many ways i don't really feel I know my son. I know the little boy who was a challenge but also wonderful.... this young man I really dont know and to be honest don't like very much either. I cant tell you how much all of your support and solidarity means to me, This board is an emotional life saver for me. TL [/QUOTE]
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