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<blockquote data-quote="toughlovin" data-source="post: 507815"><p>Thanks all. Well it didn't take long for him to call us. LOL. So he called and gave us a similar story as last time.. he hasn't been smoking, they didn't drug test him, the problem was he and the house manager "clashed". God you want to believe him but I am past that, I just don't. We basically said this is the 3rd sober house you have been kicked out of, we can't do this anymore.... so we are not willing to pay for another sober house. At this point the only thing we will help with is treatment! He mumbled something and hung up on us.... which is what he does when he knows he has to stay polite but doesn't like what we say. </p><p></p><p>Kimno.... I kind of had the same thought as you until I talked to this guy at the tx center... he scared me both about spice and the fact that his brother died... and of course the whole Whitney Houston thing has gotten to me too. And there are people who finally get it when they go to tx even when they don't want to go. </p><p></p><p>If he goes to tx now it wont be because he wants treatment it will be because he has no other place to go... however if it is a 90 day program (which I am hoping for) and some extended options. I really think at this point he needs longer tx than 30 days.</p><p></p><p>Anyway I give him a day or two at the most and then my guess is he will go to tx.... lets hope it rains down there tonight. LOL.... is that awful of me or what?</p><p></p><p>My husband did mention tonight that spice can kill you and difficult child said well some people have siezed but it is very unusual. Great so he knows the risks and keeps doing it anyways.</p><p></p><p>While I was writing this he texted me and asked "how long in treatment?". I said "Whats it going to take? 90 days?" So now is he going to start bargaining about that?</p><p></p><p>Well this is live... his response was "A week?'. OMG really? So I just said I didn't think a week would make any difference and maybe he needs to be on the street for awhile before he is serious about getting help.</p><p></p><p>TL</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="toughlovin, post: 507815"] Thanks all. Well it didn't take long for him to call us. LOL. So he called and gave us a similar story as last time.. he hasn't been smoking, they didn't drug test him, the problem was he and the house manager "clashed". God you want to believe him but I am past that, I just don't. We basically said this is the 3rd sober house you have been kicked out of, we can't do this anymore.... so we are not willing to pay for another sober house. At this point the only thing we will help with is treatment! He mumbled something and hung up on us.... which is what he does when he knows he has to stay polite but doesn't like what we say. Kimno.... I kind of had the same thought as you until I talked to this guy at the tx center... he scared me both about spice and the fact that his brother died... and of course the whole Whitney Houston thing has gotten to me too. And there are people who finally get it when they go to tx even when they don't want to go. If he goes to tx now it wont be because he wants treatment it will be because he has no other place to go... however if it is a 90 day program (which I am hoping for) and some extended options. I really think at this point he needs longer tx than 30 days. Anyway I give him a day or two at the most and then my guess is he will go to tx.... lets hope it rains down there tonight. LOL.... is that awful of me or what? My husband did mention tonight that spice can kill you and difficult child said well some people have siezed but it is very unusual. Great so he knows the risks and keeps doing it anyways. While I was writing this he texted me and asked "how long in treatment?". I said "Whats it going to take? 90 days?" So now is he going to start bargaining about that? Well this is live... his response was "A week?'. OMG really? So I just said I didn't think a week would make any difference and maybe he needs to be on the street for awhile before he is serious about getting help. TL [/QUOTE]
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