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<blockquote data-quote="toughlovin" data-source="post: 507863"><p>Well I guess he didn't like the last thing i said because he has stopped responding. Oh well at least we were able to have the conversation. It amazes me though how easily he can get my head swirling and me doubting myself!!! He is a master at that. So now he is making it sound like being out of state and away from the area is the problem... and somehow I feel he is implying this is my fault. (He did not say that). And that if only he could come back things would be ok. (I know that is not true). Anyway he is obviously doing the if onlys and he is headed me on that path too.... which I just have to stop. It is what it is and he needs to figure it out.</p><p></p><p>And you know the confounded thing, which I can't bring up or he will really shut me down, is that it is the darned girlfriend. When he first went down there she had dumped him and so he knew and wanted to be away from her... but now they are on again off again and so he wants to be back up here. I wish she would just break up with him once and for all!!!!!! Darn her. He doesn't know I have that one figured out by looking at the phone records.</p><p></p><p>And of course all of that junk is just obsucring the fact that the kid whenever he has a hard time turns to drugs... </p><p></p><p>That is the issue I need to keep focusing on... because really if you are a drug addict not in recovery, it doesn't matter where you are you will still be a drug addict... and it will still get you into trouble.</p><p></p><p>TL</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="toughlovin, post: 507863"] Well I guess he didn't like the last thing i said because he has stopped responding. Oh well at least we were able to have the conversation. It amazes me though how easily he can get my head swirling and me doubting myself!!! He is a master at that. So now he is making it sound like being out of state and away from the area is the problem... and somehow I feel he is implying this is my fault. (He did not say that). And that if only he could come back things would be ok. (I know that is not true). Anyway he is obviously doing the if onlys and he is headed me on that path too.... which I just have to stop. It is what it is and he needs to figure it out. And you know the confounded thing, which I can't bring up or he will really shut me down, is that it is the darned girlfriend. When he first went down there she had dumped him and so he knew and wanted to be away from her... but now they are on again off again and so he wants to be back up here. I wish she would just break up with him once and for all!!!!!! Darn her. He doesn't know I have that one figured out by looking at the phone records. And of course all of that junk is just obsucring the fact that the kid whenever he has a hard time turns to drugs... That is the issue I need to keep focusing on... because really if you are a drug addict not in recovery, it doesn't matter where you are you will still be a drug addict... and it will still get you into trouble. TL [/QUOTE]
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