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<blockquote data-quote="rejectedmom" data-source="post: 508129" data-attributes="member: 2315"><p>TL, I am so sorry you were taken in by his manipulations again. It stinks that he is still pulling this stuff whle you were hopeful land willing to help him. I understand about the abandonment issues. My difficult child#2 has them also and we had his therapist tell us to hold on while he was being abusive and using only to have him attack me. It was horrid but that abandonment thing stuck in my brain and I still continued to try to help him. He has had periods wehn he did well but they became fewer and shorter and eventually they were not enough for me to go out on a limb for him again. I think I will never do more than make a few referals for him in the future. He pulled all kindsof maipulations trying to get us to bring him back home. I guess I knew in my heart it wouldn't make a darn bit of difference and I was not really tempted to do that. I am sending you healing thoughts and much support. And yeah I agree with the others... PUT DOWN THAT PHONE AND DO SOMETHING FOR YOURSELF AND/OR YOUR husband!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="rejectedmom, post: 508129, member: 2315"] TL, I am so sorry you were taken in by his manipulations again. It stinks that he is still pulling this stuff whle you were hopeful land willing to help him. I understand about the abandonment issues. My difficult child#2 has them also and we had his therapist tell us to hold on while he was being abusive and using only to have him attack me. It was horrid but that abandonment thing stuck in my brain and I still continued to try to help him. He has had periods wehn he did well but they became fewer and shorter and eventually they were not enough for me to go out on a limb for him again. I think I will never do more than make a few referals for him in the future. He pulled all kindsof maipulations trying to get us to bring him back home. I guess I knew in my heart it wouldn't make a darn bit of difference and I was not really tempted to do that. I am sending you healing thoughts and much support. And yeah I agree with the others... PUT DOWN THAT PHONE AND DO SOMETHING FOR YOURSELF AND/OR YOUR husband! [/QUOTE]
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