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<blockquote data-quote="PatriotsGirl" data-source="post: 639245" data-attributes="member: 15796"><p>I don't know. The judge is hard. Real hard and he has NO sympathy for addicts. I should email him and ask him what he thinks he will do...I should at least email him and let him know about the pipe I found. That just goes to show how bad her issues are.</p><p> </p><p>difficult child's PO had emailed him prior and asked for his advice on the failed drug test. She knew difficult child had turned herself around for the past two weeks so she was second guessing herself on the arrest. The judge told her that difficult child has to face the consequences of what she did and signed the arrest warrant. The PO is going to recommend residential rehab - but doesn't know if they can actually get her in one. We won't pay for it. We have our hands (and paychecks) full at the moment.</p><p> </p><p>I will most definitely have the papers signed <strong>before</strong> she goes to court. After those are signed and the judge approves, she will need to file with the court to get it dissolved and then I will have the opportunity to object. We would then go to court for a hearing. No judge is going to give him back to her without some serious treatment and counselling first. She will have to prove that she can provide for and take care of that little boy and she cannot right now.</p><p> </p><p>husband and I are over being angry. Now we are just shaking our heads agreeing that she needs serious, serious help. I hope she gets it. There is nothing I would hope for more than to see her turn it around and be a good mother. BUT, I am not going to count on that happening, either.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="PatriotsGirl, post: 639245, member: 15796"] I don't know. The judge is hard. Real hard and he has NO sympathy for addicts. I should email him and ask him what he thinks he will do...I should at least email him and let him know about the pipe I found. That just goes to show how bad her issues are. difficult child's PO had emailed him prior and asked for his advice on the failed drug test. She knew difficult child had turned herself around for the past two weeks so she was second guessing herself on the arrest. The judge told her that difficult child has to face the consequences of what she did and signed the arrest warrant. The PO is going to recommend residential rehab - but doesn't know if they can actually get her in one. We won't pay for it. We have our hands (and paychecks) full at the moment. I will most definitely have the papers signed [B]before[/B] she goes to court. After those are signed and the judge approves, she will need to file with the court to get it dissolved and then I will have the opportunity to object. We would then go to court for a hearing. No judge is going to give him back to her without some serious treatment and counselling first. She will have to prove that she can provide for and take care of that little boy and she cannot right now. husband and I are over being angry. Now we are just shaking our heads agreeing that she needs serious, serious help. I hope she gets it. There is nothing I would hope for more than to see her turn it around and be a good mother. BUT, I am not going to count on that happening, either. [/QUOTE]
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