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It Just Keeps Getting Worse
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<blockquote data-quote="Second Time Around" data-source="post: 651741" data-attributes="member: 18739"><p>Yes, this is exactly what is going on. It's very painful to realize that someone you love sees you this way and is treating you this way, but there's nothing you can do about that. She has to do the work to change that. But you can work on changing yourself and protecting yourself from that. Maybe she will change someday and maybe she won't, but your life matters and you deserve to feel happy and peaceful. I also agree that it's really important to get as much support and help as you can - this board, therapists, Al-Anon. This kind of personal work can be really tough at the start, but it does get easier over time.</p><p></p><p><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/staystrong.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":staystrong:" title="staystrong :staystrong:" data-shortname=":staystrong:" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Second Time Around, post: 651741, member: 18739"] Yes, this is exactly what is going on. It's very painful to realize that someone you love sees you this way and is treating you this way, but there's nothing you can do about that. She has to do the work to change that. But you can work on changing yourself and protecting yourself from that. Maybe she will change someday and maybe she won't, but your life matters and you deserve to feel happy and peaceful. I also agree that it's really important to get as much support and help as you can - this board, therapists, Al-Anon. This kind of personal work can be really tough at the start, but it does get easier over time. :staystrong: [/QUOTE]
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