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it was exactly as i suspected....
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<blockquote data-quote="Shari" data-source="post: 426946" data-attributes="member: 1848"><p>Homestly, Jen, it hasn't been long enough for anything to really happen. </p><p>The consultant hired to do an fba for Wee at school said it takes 12-18 months to truly undo behaviors. I don't know if that's true, but I do know 3 weeks isn't even a drop in the bucket. </p><p>What needs to happen is that this other mother decides she's tired of difficult child not pulling her weight around there and boot her. It usually happens - funny thing about freeloaders is that the ones they are sucking from usually do get tired of it eventually unless they are getting something out of it. So then when this other woman boots her, honestly, most likely, shell find someone else who will take her in. And the cycle repeats, until she sees that she has to contribute for people to want to keep her around. </p><p>As I'm sure you've noticed here on pe....no one's kid moved out and realized what a screw up it was in a week or two. This is a long haul deal.</p><p>That's also why they are saying coming home is a really iffy proposition. We aren't talking about next week or even next month. You're probably looking at next year, if then.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Shari, post: 426946, member: 1848"] Homestly, Jen, it hasn't been long enough for anything to really happen. The consultant hired to do an fba for Wee at school said it takes 12-18 months to truly undo behaviors. I don't know if that's true, but I do know 3 weeks isn't even a drop in the bucket. What needs to happen is that this other mother decides she's tired of difficult child not pulling her weight around there and boot her. It usually happens - funny thing about freeloaders is that the ones they are sucking from usually do get tired of it eventually unless they are getting something out of it. So then when this other woman boots her, honestly, most likely, shell find someone else who will take her in. And the cycle repeats, until she sees that she has to contribute for people to want to keep her around. As I'm sure you've noticed here on pe....no one's kid moved out and realized what a screw up it was in a week or two. This is a long haul deal. That's also why they are saying coming home is a really iffy proposition. We aren't talking about next week or even next month. You're probably looking at next year, if then. [/QUOTE]
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