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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 427232" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>sorry thats a rough story.....i don't blame you i too wouldn't be able to handle the possibility of violence again. how scarey and yea that's rough stuff to go through. my heart goes out to you, and the loss of your sister also. alot alot of stuff.</p><p> </p><p>easy child difficult child whatever she is is an angry girl because she has internalized everything that's gone on in her life of 18 years. she was offered therapy after my divorce years ago, once again and the last time. she doesn't cope well, she shoves down. she doesnt' know her father either which the therapist and i know is also a huge hurt for her that she refuses to address. the doctor felt she met the criteria for add yet never finished the testing process because she never went back.</p><p> </p><p>so if she guts it out, begins to do the work she'll get straight. she has to want to and she has to respect herself which right now she doesnt at all. it shows bigtime.</p><p> </p><p>i dont want to take anything away from her, yet she isnt' doing on her own the way you and i did. i moved out at 17 also. my father had abused me horribly mentally and sexually in another state i lived with him in.my mother left me there because i was "acting out" and she didn't know what to do with me. little did she know he had already had one round of abuse onto me when i was much much younger. hence me acting out! between that and the bars he'd take me to every weekend on visitation. oh sheesh was i a messed up teen yea no doubt. i went crazy at 12, it was over by 14. i returned to my mom and her new husband his two kids and a new baby of theirs on the way. it was all just a bit too much. i too didnt' complete high school. i dropped out in my senior year because fla had misplaced my transcripts and i wasn't getting credit for school there. i said the heck with this. got my g.e.d. immediately with-o taking classes, had already been working a pt job at night, got a full time job in manhattan, got an apartment, went to college at night and madea life for myself.</p><p> </p><p>easy child is ummm drinking heavily, not attending school and using this woman for food and shelter. so there isn't any doing for her in there like you and i <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p><p> </p><p>maybe in time though we'll c......</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 427232, member: 4514"] sorry thats a rough story.....i don't blame you i too wouldn't be able to handle the possibility of violence again. how scarey and yea that's rough stuff to go through. my heart goes out to you, and the loss of your sister also. alot alot of stuff. easy child difficult child whatever she is is an angry girl because she has internalized everything that's gone on in her life of 18 years. she was offered therapy after my divorce years ago, once again and the last time. she doesn't cope well, she shoves down. she doesnt' know her father either which the therapist and i know is also a huge hurt for her that she refuses to address. the doctor felt she met the criteria for add yet never finished the testing process because she never went back. so if she guts it out, begins to do the work she'll get straight. she has to want to and she has to respect herself which right now she doesnt at all. it shows bigtime. i dont want to take anything away from her, yet she isnt' doing on her own the way you and i did. i moved out at 17 also. my father had abused me horribly mentally and sexually in another state i lived with him in.my mother left me there because i was "acting out" and she didn't know what to do with me. little did she know he had already had one round of abuse onto me when i was much much younger. hence me acting out! between that and the bars he'd take me to every weekend on visitation. oh sheesh was i a messed up teen yea no doubt. i went crazy at 12, it was over by 14. i returned to my mom and her new husband his two kids and a new baby of theirs on the way. it was all just a bit too much. i too didnt' complete high school. i dropped out in my senior year because fla had misplaced my transcripts and i wasn't getting credit for school there. i said the heck with this. got my g.e.d. immediately with-o taking classes, had already been working a pt job at night, got a full time job in manhattan, got an apartment, went to college at night and madea life for myself. easy child is ummm drinking heavily, not attending school and using this woman for food and shelter. so there isn't any doing for her in there like you and i :) maybe in time though we'll c...... [/QUOTE]
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