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It's a stalemate
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<blockquote data-quote="pprguy" data-source="post: 564400" data-attributes="member: 15018"><p>DDD is so right. He is watching friends go on to happy lives, college degrees and marriages. It would be depressing for wife or me but wife and me neither are addicts and would cope. Addicts look for reasons to use and will not or cannot cope. I asked him if he sees himself in a career with a family and a house and he says it is not for him-needs more excitement-has dreams (many of them and not always realistic) but cannot take actions to make anything happen. </p><p>He has always had a terrible time making a decision from minor things like what to wear what to order off a menu to now where to go with his life.</p><p>His indecision is now paralysis. Even tho thru rehap and AA we know we cannot control him for now he is resigned to our rules. When he rebels he will be out and I am sure using again.</p><p>It is one day at a time-we will see what tomorrow brings.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="pprguy, post: 564400, member: 15018"] DDD is so right. He is watching friends go on to happy lives, college degrees and marriages. It would be depressing for wife or me but wife and me neither are addicts and would cope. Addicts look for reasons to use and will not or cannot cope. I asked him if he sees himself in a career with a family and a house and he says it is not for him-needs more excitement-has dreams (many of them and not always realistic) but cannot take actions to make anything happen. He has always had a terrible time making a decision from minor things like what to wear what to order off a menu to now where to go with his life. His indecision is now paralysis. Even tho thru rehap and AA we know we cannot control him for now he is resigned to our rules. When he rebels he will be out and I am sure using again. It is one day at a time-we will see what tomorrow brings. [/QUOTE]
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