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<blockquote data-quote="SunnyFlorida" data-source="post: 81469" data-attributes="member: 696"><p>Along time ago I read a book called Toxic Parents. It described how certain people said and did things, even from the grave, and how we let them keep their "power".</p><p></p><p>You have your own power now. You have gained your power from all the past struggles you have been involved in. Your attack just won't vanish because a 1yr time has lapsed....it will take more than that.</p><p></p><p>in my humble opinion, I don't think it's wrong or a bad idea to let difficult child know what that attack did to you and how you don't "trust" and you don't feel "safe". Your plans, however, are to continue your recovery and to continue to give difficult child unconditional love. But, at the present time, your needs must come first and difficult child will just have to "do to get". You have a minor child who needs your full attention.</p><p></p><p>You can do this....we've already seen how you've been doing it. :bravo:</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="SunnyFlorida, post: 81469, member: 696"] Along time ago I read a book called Toxic Parents. It described how certain people said and did things, even from the grave, and how we let them keep their "power". You have your own power now. You have gained your power from all the past struggles you have been involved in. Your attack just won't vanish because a 1yr time has lapsed....it will take more than that. in my humble opinion, I don't think it's wrong or a bad idea to let difficult child know what that attack did to you and how you don't "trust" and you don't feel "safe". Your plans, however, are to continue your recovery and to continue to give difficult child unconditional love. But, at the present time, your needs must come first and difficult child will just have to "do to get". You have a minor child who needs your full attention. You can do this....we've already seen how you've been doing it. [img]:bravo:[/img] [/QUOTE]
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