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<blockquote data-quote="Nancy" data-source="post: 418999" data-attributes="member: 59"><p>TL I am so sorry, and yes I know how you are feeling all too well. I wait every day for a call from the home telling me she either left or they are kicking her out. I know all about spice, when difficult child got together with a bunch of her rehab buddies to attend the funeral of one of them who died on Christmas Day from heroin, one of them brought spice and they all smoked it at the hotel they were staying at. Nice huh? How many young people have to die before they get it???</p><p></p><p>Back to your difficult child, have you spoken with him? You know we see the signs way before. I saw it with my difficult child and although she tried to deny it I knew she was relapsing long before it was undeniable. We learned in our parent's education days at rehab not to ignore those signs but to recognize them for what they are and stick to our line in the sand. Get to an alanon meeting. Decide what youand husband and willing to live with and what you aren't and make that clear to difficult child. He probably will not go to the shelter, our difficult child would not. He may end up on the street for a while. Hopefully he will turn this around. He has the tools, he just has to be willing to do it now.</p><p></p><p>You may want to start checking into sober homes near you if he chooses to come back to your area. </p><p></p><p>I will be thinking of you and trying to give you strength. This is a horrible roller coaster we are on.</p><p></p><p>Hugs,</p><p>Nancy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nancy, post: 418999, member: 59"] TL I am so sorry, and yes I know how you are feeling all too well. I wait every day for a call from the home telling me she either left or they are kicking her out. I know all about spice, when difficult child got together with a bunch of her rehab buddies to attend the funeral of one of them who died on Christmas Day from heroin, one of them brought spice and they all smoked it at the hotel they were staying at. Nice huh? How many young people have to die before they get it??? Back to your difficult child, have you spoken with him? You know we see the signs way before. I saw it with my difficult child and although she tried to deny it I knew she was relapsing long before it was undeniable. We learned in our parent's education days at rehab not to ignore those signs but to recognize them for what they are and stick to our line in the sand. Get to an alanon meeting. Decide what youand husband and willing to live with and what you aren't and make that clear to difficult child. He probably will not go to the shelter, our difficult child would not. He may end up on the street for a while. Hopefully he will turn this around. He has the tools, he just has to be willing to do it now. You may want to start checking into sober homes near you if he chooses to come back to your area. I will be thinking of you and trying to give you strength. This is a horrible roller coaster we are on. Hugs, Nancy [/QUOTE]
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