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<blockquote data-quote="witzend" data-source="post: 151358" data-attributes="member: 99"><p>Firstly, I'm sorry to hear about this development. I'm sure you are very upset. </p><p></p><p>That being said, whatever you do, don't say a word to the police. I find it incredibly difficult to believe that they told you that they were coming tomorrow to haul you away in handcuffs. Why not today? They're bluffing. Did you debate them on the phone? They don't like it when you debate with them. They'll tell you they are going to arrest you to get you to stop. It's a very effective trump card.</p><p></p><p>The police have her side of the story. <em>If</em> they show up at the house, be cooperative physically with them. Tell them that if they are prepared charge you, you will go peacefully with them and wait for your lawyer to speak for you. You have nothing to say. If they are not prepared to charge you, you don't have to say a word or go anywhere with them. Tell them that they should contact your attorney if they decide that they have enough evidence at a later date to arrest you and you will turn yourself in. If they tell you you are going into the station, go cooperatively without argument. But don't get yourself arrested for "hindering and investigation" which won't look good for your character as to what your daughter is saying about you. It will make her case look valid.</p><p></p><p>They have to investigate before they arrest you and if they've only talked to difficult child and toadboy, they haven't investigated. I think you are letting them manipulate you into being the crazy woman your daughter says you are. You shouldn't let that happen.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="witzend, post: 151358, member: 99"] Firstly, I'm sorry to hear about this development. I'm sure you are very upset. That being said, whatever you do, don't say a word to the police. I find it incredibly difficult to believe that they told you that they were coming tomorrow to haul you away in handcuffs. Why not today? They're bluffing. Did you debate them on the phone? They don't like it when you debate with them. They'll tell you they are going to arrest you to get you to stop. It's a very effective trump card. The police have her side of the story. [I]If[/I] they show up at the house, be cooperative physically with them. Tell them that if they are prepared charge you, you will go peacefully with them and wait for your lawyer to speak for you. You have nothing to say. If they are not prepared to charge you, you don't have to say a word or go anywhere with them. Tell them that they should contact your attorney if they decide that they have enough evidence at a later date to arrest you and you will turn yourself in. If they tell you you are going into the station, go cooperatively without argument. But don't get yourself arrested for "hindering and investigation" which won't look good for your character as to what your daughter is saying about you. It will make her case look valid. They have to investigate before they arrest you and if they've only talked to difficult child and toadboy, they haven't investigated. I think you are letting them manipulate you into being the crazy woman your daughter says you are. You shouldn't let that happen. [/QUOTE]
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