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<blockquote data-quote="hearts and roses" data-source="post: 450107" data-attributes="member: 2211"><p>"Get the temporary custody order in place, and while I know you don't want to deny the kids to see their dad.......if it were me, I'd go for no custody until he's completed a treatment program and can test clean consistently. He loves the kids, the kids love him. But to be bluntly honest, it's just not good for the kids to be around him as long as he's using. Nor is it safe for them to be around him as long as he's using. Sometimes safety and well being have to come first. ". Agreed! Big hugs to you, you're a strong and capable woman. Right now you're in survival mode. Remember at some point that it's okay grieve the loss of your dream of a long happy marriage by being good to yourself and nurturing your own needs. This is a healthy decision for you and the kiddos-things will get better from here, believe it.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="hearts and roses, post: 450107, member: 2211"] "Get the temporary custody order in place, and while I know you don't want to deny the kids to see their dad.......if it were me, I'd go for no custody until he's completed a treatment program and can test clean consistently. He loves the kids, the kids love him. But to be bluntly honest, it's just not good for the kids to be around him as long as he's using. Nor is it safe for them to be around him as long as he's using. Sometimes safety and well being have to come first. ". Agreed! Big hugs to you, you're a strong and capable woman. Right now you're in survival mode. Remember at some point that it's okay grieve the loss of your dream of a long happy marriage by being good to yourself and nurturing your own needs. This is a healthy decision for you and the kiddos-things will get better from here, believe it. [/QUOTE]
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