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<blockquote data-quote="keista" data-source="post: 450246" data-attributes="member: 11965"><p>I dislike your legal aid as well. Here after we contact legal aid, we have to wait another 6 months for them to proceed. Even if he's been gone for over a year already? YES. But as <strong>Step</strong> said, stealing your own kid's medications has got to fall into the abuse neglect spectrum somewhere.</p><p></p><p>Glad I could bring some comfort in knowing you are not alone. It took me almost 4 years to finally start proceedings, and I did so only because I did started saving for retirement etc. I was concerned the more it grew, the more he could legally get his hands on despite the fact it was all accumulated AFTER he left. It's not much at all, but I dream big so someday I hope it's enough for him to be shocked.</p><p></p><p>Getting a temporary custody order and temporary child support order is generally no too difficult. If he's sticking around you should focus on those. Filing a dissolution of marriage is not always necessary to get those. </p><p></p><p>Feel free to pm me anytime for any reason. I'm reminded of a movie that was quoted to me about 20 years ago, but I never saw: "What was the worst day of your life? The day I got divorced. What was the best day of your life? The day I got divorced." Just keep working through each emotion and each hurdle as they come. Don't try to make sense of it all right now. That will come in time - hopefully.<img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/consoling.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":consoling:" title="consoling :consoling:" data-shortname=":consoling:" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="keista, post: 450246, member: 11965"] I dislike your legal aid as well. Here after we contact legal aid, we have to wait another 6 months for them to proceed. Even if he's been gone for over a year already? YES. But as [B]Step[/B] said, stealing your own kid's medications has got to fall into the abuse neglect spectrum somewhere. Glad I could bring some comfort in knowing you are not alone. It took me almost 4 years to finally start proceedings, and I did so only because I did started saving for retirement etc. I was concerned the more it grew, the more he could legally get his hands on despite the fact it was all accumulated AFTER he left. It's not much at all, but I dream big so someday I hope it's enough for him to be shocked. Getting a temporary custody order and temporary child support order is generally no too difficult. If he's sticking around you should focus on those. Filing a dissolution of marriage is not always necessary to get those. Feel free to pm me anytime for any reason. I'm reminded of a movie that was quoted to me about 20 years ago, but I never saw: "What was the worst day of your life? The day I got divorced. What was the best day of your life? The day I got divorced." Just keep working through each emotion and each hurdle as they come. Don't try to make sense of it all right now. That will come in time - hopefully.:consoling: [/QUOTE]
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