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<blockquote data-quote="Nancy" data-source="post: 527077" data-attributes="member: 59"><p>TL I wish I had the hope that if my difficult child got clean her values would come back. Truth is she never had the same values we did. She never got the lessons we tried to teach, both by word and example. For me this is part of the reason why it's so hard to accept, she is who she is and who she has been from very early on. I don't like it, most of the time I don't like her. I don't like the things she does or the way she treats people or the lies she tells or the things she steals or the laws she breaks, etc, etc. And that is so hard to finally accept. She will never be the person I wish she would be. And even if she got off drugs I don't think she would ever develop the value system that we hold dear.</p><p></p><p>I love her but I don't like the person she is and that hurts so darn much, and it is so hard to say out loud.</p><p></p><p>Nancy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nancy, post: 527077, member: 59"] TL I wish I had the hope that if my difficult child got clean her values would come back. Truth is she never had the same values we did. She never got the lessons we tried to teach, both by word and example. For me this is part of the reason why it's so hard to accept, she is who she is and who she has been from very early on. I don't like it, most of the time I don't like her. I don't like the things she does or the way she treats people or the lies she tells or the things she steals or the laws she breaks, etc, etc. And that is so hard to finally accept. She will never be the person I wish she would be. And even if she got off drugs I don't think she would ever develop the value system that we hold dear. I love her but I don't like the person she is and that hurts so darn much, and it is so hard to say out loud. Nancy [/QUOTE]
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