In the weird saga of my son's family goes, she keeps the two families seperated. I met her mother once, by accident, because she dropped over not knowing that we were in town, however she left really fast and was not warm and fuzzy. We always have family functions apart...never together. There WAS a one year old birthday we were all invited to. I couldn't go due to getting kicked out of our house and having to find new lodgings NOW, but my daughter went and said her family basically ignored her. They did give her odd looks at first because she is a Korean adoptee and nobody had any idea that she was my son's sister until he announced it. Then they were a little bit warmer, but not friendly. I have no idea about anything in her family other than her mother is a functioning alcoholic who makes six figures because her father is very wealthy and she works for him. I know she has a breathalyzer in her car and, from seeing her, that s he is quite pretty for her age. I've never met anybody else, even when George was born. Her family got to come and see him, then we got to come and see him. Tell me if I'm just imagining that this is incredibly odd. And don't ask me to question daughter in law about it. She never answers questions. She evades, skirts around, gets busy, just says nothing...she is also very distant. I have t o also add that at the beginning of son's marriage, she would call me all the time with her problems, sometimes in tears. I was always very nice to her even when it was about fights she had with my son. Even at that time, we never met her family. They did not have a wedding. They ran off and got married. They did not Baptize George because both of them are not religious. My sons sure know how to pick wives...lol!!!! Ah, maybe it's ME!!! Sorry for taking up so much space. I'm just totally baffled right now.